"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Have you ever met a woman that.....

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Have you ever met a woman that is extremely charitable, is very caring, the perfect host when you are at their home, always extremely nice to everyone including strangers, goes out of their way for others on a daily basis, looks after and cares for her family extremely well, possibly has a job caring for others aswell i.e. nurse, basically goes beyond the call of duty every day and holds a very high moral compass and seems like Florence nightingale on steroids........... but behind it all is an extremely quick minded, clever liar and a cheat and extremely manipulative?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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switch7 said:
Have you ever met a woman that is extremely charitable, is very caring, the perfect host when you are at their home, always extremely nice to everyone including strangers, goes out of their way for others on a daily basis, looks after and cares for her family extremely well, possibly has a job caring for others aswell i.e. nurse, basically goes beyond the call of duty every day and holds a very high moral compass and seems like Florence nightingale on steroids........... but behind it all is an extremely quick minded, clever liar and a cheat and extremely manipulative?

Just me then..
 

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Yeah my cousin's ex wife. She was a nurse. She threw parties at each holiday and would have tons of people. But behind the scenes she was bipolar and made my cousin's life a living hell. Crazy two faced b*tch.
 

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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We've all pretty much met women like the one you describe. You just have to look closely. They can't mask it forever, and it always comes out even if it is just momentarily.

One thing I've seen is a lot of nurses are some of the worst most phony acting people out there. They're working a job where they care for people, but in real life they're selfish, deceptive, and self absorbed: the complete opposite of what you'd expect them to be.
 

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^ A bit like doctors. They don't do it because they care about people. But because its a well paid job with plenty of status. Doctors are some of the arrogant people around.
 

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Lots of girls are like that. Nothing new :)...
 

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mangotot said:
^ A bit like doctors. They don't do it because they care about people. But because its a well paid job with plenty of status. Doctors are some of the arrogant people around.
Cops and firefighters too. Most of these guys don't do it to serve the public. And I've known some cops were a obnoxiously arrogant. Can't stand guys like that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I know a few cops and firefighters.......very arrogant, the firefighters not so much....
 
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