Have you ever felt like taking a break?

[Kourt]

Have you guys ever felt like taking a break pursueing women or just giving up for a little while? Things just havnt been going my way lately so I'm feeling a little depressed and feel like giving up on women for a little while. Just wondering.

 

[oda]

if it feels like work you are doing it wrong.

it should be fun like a game

 

[Craig Reeves]

Heh.

Don't worry about it. All DJ's go through times where things just aren't necessarily going the way you would like them to. These periods can last for a few days, to actually a few months.

The best thing to do to avoid problems like these is to keep moving, because you'll eventually move PAST the actual problem. If you spend your time just sitting around, you'll never actually be DOING anything about your problem, so it will not go away (since nobody is going to do it for you), so the longer you do nothing the longer you'll be in your predicament.

 

[Fred Da Head]

Yeah, I think sometimes you need to step back and stop pursuing girls. I don't think this has anything to do with the fact you're "doing it wrong" unlike oda said. Even games can get boring, or you might want to stop doing it for a while.

Kourt - Are "things not going your way" only including girls, or is life in general sucking right now?

I think that sometimes you should just pull back, have some fun with your bachelor friends, or follow your passion, or whatever, and forget about chicks for a while. Never completely give up, of course, but step back and be detached.

You never know, you might end up getting more chicks that way. (That happened to me, actually)

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by oda
if it feels like work you are doing it wrong.

it should be fun like a game

That's the perfect attitude!

 

[Kourt]

nah not life in general, just girls

since schools started i've done many cold approaches, gotten 20+ numbers, yet I still havnt been able to get past a date or 2 and devolp something solid, or get laid for that matter, hah its fun until trying to set up the first date and getting the run around