"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Have you ever felt like taking a break?

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Have you guys ever felt like taking a break pursueing women or just giving up for a little while? Things just havnt been going my way lately so I'm feeling a little depressed and feel like giving up on women for a little while. Just wondering.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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oda

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if it feels like work you are doing it wrong.

it should be fun like a game
 
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Heh.

Don't worry about it. All DJ's go through times where things just aren't necessarily going the way you would like them to. These periods can last for a few days, to actually a few months.

The best thing to do to avoid problems like these is to keep moving, because you'll eventually move PAST the actual problem. If you spend your time just sitting around, you'll never actually be DOING anything about your problem, so it will not go away (since nobody is going to do it for you), so the longer you do nothing the longer you'll be in your predicament.
 
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Yeah, I think sometimes you need to step back and stop pursuing girls. I don't think this has anything to do with the fact you're "doing it wrong" unlike oda said. Even games can get boring, or you might want to stop doing it for a while.

Kourt - Are "things not going your way" only including girls, or is life in general sucking right now?

I think that sometimes you should just pull back, have some fun with your bachelor friends, or follow your passion, or whatever, and forget about chicks for a while. Never completely give up, of course, but step back and be detached.

You never know, you might end up getting more chicks that way. (That happened to me, actually)
 
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Originally posted by oda
if it feels like work you are doing it wrong.

it should be fun like a game
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That's the perfect attitude!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nah not life in general, just girls

since schools started i've done many cold approaches, gotten 20+ numbers, yet I still havnt been able to get past a date or 2 and devolp something solid, or get laid for that matter, hah its fun until trying to set up the first date and getting the run around
 
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