"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Have you ever felt like taking a break?

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Have you guys ever felt like taking a break pursueing women or just giving up for a little while? Things just havnt been going my way lately so I'm feeling a little depressed and feel like giving up on women for a little while. Just wondering.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oda

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if it feels like work you are doing it wrong.

it should be fun like a game
 
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Heh.

Don't worry about it. All DJ's go through times where things just aren't necessarily going the way you would like them to. These periods can last for a few days, to actually a few months.

The best thing to do to avoid problems like these is to keep moving, because you'll eventually move PAST the actual problem. If you spend your time just sitting around, you'll never actually be DOING anything about your problem, so it will not go away (since nobody is going to do it for you), so the longer you do nothing the longer you'll be in your predicament.
 
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Yeah, I think sometimes you need to step back and stop pursuing girls. I don't think this has anything to do with the fact you're "doing it wrong" unlike oda said. Even games can get boring, or you might want to stop doing it for a while.

Kourt - Are "things not going your way" only including girls, or is life in general sucking right now?

I think that sometimes you should just pull back, have some fun with your bachelor friends, or follow your passion, or whatever, and forget about chicks for a while. Never completely give up, of course, but step back and be detached.

You never know, you might end up getting more chicks that way. (That happened to me, actually)
 
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Originally posted by oda
if it feels like work you are doing it wrong.

it should be fun like a game
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That's the perfect attitude!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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nah not life in general, just girls

since schools started i've done many cold approaches, gotten 20+ numbers, yet I still havnt been able to get past a date or 2 and devolp something solid, or get laid for that matter, hah its fun until trying to set up the first date and getting the run around
 
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