VikingKing
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And how many times? In relationships where you were not cheated on, or you think it was unlikely.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Have you ever cheated?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TheMonkeyKing
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Have quite a few times when I was younger. Usually drunk. Usually when frustrated/bored in a relationship. Don't bother anymore. If a relationship is tailing off or I meet someone else, I just end it immeidately. Last time I cheated, I ended it within the week. Can't be doing with the hassle to be honest. Don't know how women do it.
VikingKing
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Could you also vote so all the counts can be in one place.TheMonkeyKing said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TheMonkeyKing
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I have already.VikingKing said:
Atom Smasher
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Never have.
logicallefty
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Cheated on one GF one time in early 06. Felt so bad that I dumped the GF because I could no longer look her in the eye and live with the guilt and myself. I don't know how these women who are chronic cheaters can stomach it like its nothing.PipeDope said:
GS750
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Easy. Female rationalizations. That's how.logicallefty said:
"he doesn't pay enough attention to me"
"he makes me the butt of his jokes"
"I've been unhappy for quite some time"
"He has a small d*ck"
"I just don't have that feeling for him anymore"
"he works too much"
"he doesn't make me feel like he loves me"
etc, etc, etc.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I have cheated multiple times in multiple relationships.
I did feel some guilt at first, but I got used to it and even got proficient at lying.
But I would only cheat if I am sure I will get away with it and she will never find out.
That's my personal choice and I don't recommend people do it, but I don't feel any type of guilt anymore.
I did feel some guilt at first, but I got used to it and even got proficient at lying.
But I would only cheat if I am sure I will get away with it and she will never find out.
That's my personal choice and I don't recommend people do it, but I don't feel any type of guilt anymore.
Who Dares Win
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There is not a single girl I didnt cheat on.
Why? because of libido and because of the need to conquer, plus Im a man and I should be taken accountable on a different standard.
When it comes of cheating we're not equal.
What makes me feel guilty instead is the fact that I didnt treat certain girls as good as I should, I feel much more guilty about my bad behaviour toward many good girls than the fact of cheating, in some way that was more a masturbation with a girl body.
Why? because of libido and because of the need to conquer, plus Im a man and I should be taken accountable on a different standard.
When it comes of cheating we're not equal.
What makes me feel guilty instead is the fact that I didnt treat certain girls as good as I should, I feel much more guilty about my bad behaviour toward many good girls than the fact of cheating, in some way that was more a masturbation with a girl body.
This is the most important part. The moment women start believing you are loyal to them, that's the moment when they will start disrespecting you.Who Dares Win said:
Besides, most women would cheat themselves if Brad Pitt wanted to bang them.
Firestar786
Senior Don Juan
I've Cheated on every single Gf I had lol
Can't help it tbh.
Can't help it tbh.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I have never cheated in terms of sleeping with anyone else, however I have kissed other girls in the club when drunk (completely meaningless and pointless, high risk and no reward.)
I feel a certain amount of guilt towards it, however I do know it was completely meaningless and just a stupid mistake which I won't make again, if your happy, sh!t like that is just stupid!
I feel a certain amount of guilt towards it, however I do know it was completely meaningless and just a stupid mistake which I won't make again, if your happy, sh!t like that is just stupid!
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Yes I would cheat. But I might meet a girl that supply all my needs and I wont feel the urge to do it. Yet I think I can't resist a hot colombian short girl with curly hair big eyes and popped up titties tho o0
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
I can honestly say that I NEVER cheated on an exclusive relationship. When I feel the need to cheat I end the relationship before that happens.
VikingKing
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MY1KXf0hlkQWho Dares Win said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.