"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Have you ever cheated?

How many of you have cheated, in how many relationships?

  • Never

    Votes: 16 39.0%
  • Only in one relationship

    Votes: 13 31.7%
  • In two

    Votes: 1 2.4%
  • More than two relationships

    Votes: 11 26.8%

  • Total voters
    41

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PipeDope

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Never have. Is it a rush? How have you felt afterwards
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Have quite a few times when I was younger. Usually drunk. Usually when frustrated/bored in a relationship. Don't bother anymore. If a relationship is tailing off or I meet someone else, I just end it immeidately. Last time I cheated, I ended it within the week. Can't be doing with the hassle to be honest. Don't know how women do it.
 

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TheMonkeyKing said:
Have quite a few times when I was younger. Usually drunk. Usually when frustrated/bored in a relationship. Don't bother anymore. If a relationship is tailing off or I meet someone else, I just end it immeidately. Last time I cheated, I ended it within the week. Can't be doing with the hassle to be honest. Don't know how women do it.
Could you also vote so all the counts can be in one place.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheMonkeyKing

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VikingKing said:
Could you also vote so all the counts can be in one place.
I have already.
 

GS750

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been tempted, but no.
 

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PipeDope said:
Never have. Is it a rush? How have you felt afterwards
Cheated on one GF one time in early 06. Felt so bad that I dumped the GF because I could no longer look her in the eye and live with the guilt and myself. I don't know how these women who are chronic cheaters can stomach it like its nothing.
 

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logicallefty said:
Cheated on one GF one time in early 06. Felt so bad that I dumped the GF because I could no longer look her in the eye and live with the guilt and myself. I don't know how these women who are chronic cheaters can stomach it like its nothing.
Easy. Female rationalizations. That's how.

"he doesn't pay enough attention to me"
"he makes me the butt of his jokes"
"I've been unhappy for quite some time"
"He has a small d*ck"
"I just don't have that feeling for him anymore"
"he works too much"
"he doesn't make me feel like he loves me"
etc, etc, etc.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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way2smart

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I have cheated multiple times in multiple relationships.
I did feel some guilt at first, but I got used to it and even got proficient at lying.
But I would only cheat if I am sure I will get away with it and she will never find out.

That's my personal choice and I don't recommend people do it, but I don't feel any type of guilt anymore.
 

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There is not a single girl I didnt cheat on.

Why? because of libido and because of the need to conquer, plus Im a man and I should be taken accountable on a different standard.

When it comes of cheating we're not equal.

What makes me feel guilty instead is the fact that I didnt treat certain girls as good as I should, I feel much more guilty about my bad behaviour toward many good girls than the fact of cheating, in some way that was more a masturbation with a girl body.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Im a man and I should be taken accountable on a different standard.
This is the most important part. The moment women start believing you are loyal to them, that's the moment when they will start disrespecting you.

Besides, most women would cheat themselves if Brad Pitt wanted to bang them.
 

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Never have, never will. I dont commit to women I cannot be loyal to. I dont break my word because I value honesty, and expect the same in my women if I am to commit.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Desdinova

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Did it with my ex-wife. She was never home, so I found some female attention elsewhere. My mistress was also cheating on her fiancee, so we were both pretty much in the same boat.
 

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I have never cheated in terms of sleeping with anyone else, however I have kissed other girls in the club when drunk (completely meaningless and pointless, high risk and no reward.)

I feel a certain amount of guilt towards it, however I do know it was completely meaningless and just a stupid mistake which I won't make again, if your happy, sh!t like that is just stupid!
 

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Yes I would cheat. But I might meet a girl that supply all my needs and I wont feel the urge to do it. Yet I think I can't resist a hot colombian short girl with curly hair big eyes and popped up titties tho o0
 

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I can honestly say that I NEVER cheated on an exclusive relationship. When I feel the need to cheat I end the relationship before that happens.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
There is not a single girl I didnt cheat on.

Why? because of libido and because of the need to conquer, plus Im a man and I should be taken accountable on a different standard.

When it comes of cheating we're not equal.

What makes me feel guilty instead is the fact that I didnt treat certain girls as good as I should, I feel much more guilty about my bad behaviour toward many good girls than the fact of cheating, in some way that was more a masturbation with a girl body.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MY1KXf0hlkQ
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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