"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Have u ever had 2 girlfriends at the same time?
- Thread starter dadmonson
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Most of the people that i know that do it or have done it. When they first meet the girl the have the frame that alot of girls mess around with him. I find this better than 1 LTR. I have a friend who used to go out with 2 girls in the same school thing is they hated each other so the 2 girls never found out lol. If they find out depending on the frame you started with it wouldn't really surprise them.
my 2 cents
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Jon341427
Don Juan
i did end up accidently telling one about the other on aim. she made a fake screen name up and got me talking to her. then she asked me if i had a gf and what her name was. well i was positive this girl was gf1 trying to do me dirty. so i said gf1's name. well it turned out to be gf2 behind the keyboard! but i talked my way out of it.
went out with gf1 for 6 months, the other for 4 till i moved away for college.
You'll start to hear things like "Hey you! What do I have to call a couple days in advance to get a date with you?"
"Why are you always so busy?"
"You don't have a girlfriend do you?" (I always find it hard to keep a straight face when I say "No")
It's funny because girl #1 will ask you these questions, then girl #2 will ask you the same shyt the next night and so on...you'll hear these questions a lot. Key is to never fully answer them. Just give them some half-assed, aloof answer with a ****y smile(Although this is pushing it if you don't have good game).
The funniest is when you respond "Yeah I have 4 or 5 girlfriends. And I'm having a hard time fitting you all into my schedule, so just chill out, okay!?" Be serious when you say it, but then smile. She'll think, "Oh, he must be kidding!" Haha!
It's fun for a while, but it gets tiring, and kinda stressful.
In the future, I'm going to attempt honesty. Be honest with them and tell all 4 or 5 girls that I'm dating/screwing other girls. I will either end up the guy with the best deal on the planet, or in the morgue! Hehe
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
satyriasis
Don Juan
if your talking about a realtionship, why even get into one if your gonna have two girlfriends?
BGMan
Master Don Juan
Exactly. I mean, they're probably seeing a few different guys anyway (unless they're AFC-chicks, and we don't date those), so why have a cow over seeing more than one at once?
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People? Actually, people of the female kind. I still think it's weird imagining girls talking about me when I'm not around...
BGMan:nervous:
