"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Have u ever had 2 girlfriends at the same time?
- Thread starter dadmonson
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Most of the people that i know that do it or have done it. When they first meet the girl the have the frame that alot of girls mess around with him. I find this better than 1 LTR. I have a friend who used to go out with 2 girls in the same school thing is they hated each other so the 2 girls never found out lol. If they find out depending on the frame you started with it wouldn't really surprise them.
my 2 cents
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Jon341427
Don Juan
i did end up accidently telling one about the other on aim. she made a fake screen name up and got me talking to her. then she asked me if i had a gf and what her name was. well i was positive this girl was gf1 trying to do me dirty. so i said gf1's name. well it turned out to be gf2 behind the keyboard! but i talked my way out of it.
went out with gf1 for 6 months, the other for 4 till i moved away for college.
You'll start to hear things like "Hey you! What do I have to call a couple days in advance to get a date with you?"
"Why are you always so busy?"
"You don't have a girlfriend do you?" (I always find it hard to keep a straight face when I say "No")
It's funny because girl #1 will ask you these questions, then girl #2 will ask you the same shyt the next night and so on...you'll hear these questions a lot. Key is to never fully answer them. Just give them some half-assed, aloof answer with a ****y smile(Although this is pushing it if you don't have good game).
The funniest is when you respond "Yeah I have 4 or 5 girlfriends. And I'm having a hard time fitting you all into my schedule, so just chill out, okay!?" Be serious when you say it, but then smile. She'll think, "Oh, he must be kidding!" Haha!
It's fun for a while, but it gets tiring, and kinda stressful.
In the future, I'm going to attempt honesty. Be honest with them and tell all 4 or 5 girls that I'm dating/screwing other girls. I will either end up the guy with the best deal on the planet, or in the morgue! Hehe
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
satyriasis
Don Juan
if your talking about a realtionship, why even get into one if your gonna have two girlfriends?
BGMan
Master Don Juan
Exactly. I mean, they're probably seeing a few different guys anyway (unless they're AFC-chicks, and we don't date those), so why have a cow over seeing more than one at once?
:crackup:
People? Actually, people of the female kind. I still think it's weird imagining girls talking about me when I'm not around...
BGMan:nervous:
