I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I think it could be fun thats why I want to kno if any guys done it.Originally posted by DJ4Real
I haven't......How do you think something like that would turn out? Especially one of the girls finds out.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Exactly. I mean, they're probably seeing a few different guys anyway (unless they're AFC-chicks, and we don't date those), so why have a cow over seeing more than one at once?Originally posted by satyriasis
if your talking about casual dating then it doesn't matter how many, they can know for all i care.
if your talking about a realtionship, why even get into one if your gonna have two girlfriends?
:crackup:Originally posted by italostud
I've juggled up to 5 at the same time. I found that the trickiest part was actually keeping the girls from getting too pissed off. Since they all want to see you, and you have to schedule them all in, some start to get a little *****y.
You'll start to hear things like "Hey you! What do I have to call a couple days in advance to get a date with you?"
"Why are you always so busy?"
"You don't have a girlfriend do you?" (I always find it hard to keep a straight face when I say "No")
It's funny because girl #1 will ask you these questions, then girl #2 will ask you the same shyt the next night and so on...you'll hear these questions a lot. Key is to never fully answer them. Just give them some half-assed, aloof answer with a ****y smile(Although this is pushing it if you don't have good game).
The funniest is when you respond "Yeah I have 4 or 5 girlfriends. And I'm having a hard time fitting you all into my schedule, so just chill out, okay!?" Be serious when you say it, but then smile. She'll think, "Oh, he must be kidding!" Haha!
It's fun for a while, but it gets tiring, and kinda stressful.
In the future, I'm going to attempt honesty. Be honest with them and tell all 4 or 5 girls that I'm dating/screwing other girls. I will either end up the guy with the best deal on the planet, or in the morgue! Hehe
People? Actually, people of the female kind. I still think it's weird imagining girls talking about me when I'm not around...Originally posted by heater528
Yes i have done it and what i have found is that having 2 gf's at the same time sucks. You gotta make time for 2 chicks.. take 2 chicks out, entertain 2 chicks... i began to miss my own social life and my own friends. I also would be afraid to take them out in our home town because people blab way to easy.
you should always have at least 2 girlfriends at the same timeOriginally posted by dadmonson
If u did then why and how did it turn out?