Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I think it could be fun thats why I want to kno if any guys done it.Originally posted by DJ4Real
I haven't......How do you think something like that would turn out? Especially one of the girls finds out.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Exactly. I mean, they're probably seeing a few different guys anyway (unless they're AFC-chicks, and we don't date those), so why have a cow over seeing more than one at once?Originally posted by satyriasis
if your talking about casual dating then it doesn't matter how many, they can know for all i care.
if your talking about a realtionship, why even get into one if your gonna have two girlfriends?
:crackup:Originally posted by italostud
I've juggled up to 5 at the same time. I found that the trickiest part was actually keeping the girls from getting too pissed off. Since they all want to see you, and you have to schedule them all in, some start to get a little *****y.
You'll start to hear things like "Hey you! What do I have to call a couple days in advance to get a date with you?"
"Why are you always so busy?"
"You don't have a girlfriend do you?" (I always find it hard to keep a straight face when I say "No")
It's funny because girl #1 will ask you these questions, then girl #2 will ask you the same shyt the next night and so on...you'll hear these questions a lot. Key is to never fully answer them. Just give them some half-assed, aloof answer with a ****y smile(Although this is pushing it if you don't have good game).
The funniest is when you respond "Yeah I have 4 or 5 girlfriends. And I'm having a hard time fitting you all into my schedule, so just chill out, okay!?" Be serious when you say it, but then smile. She'll think, "Oh, he must be kidding!" Haha!
It's fun for a while, but it gets tiring, and kinda stressful.
In the future, I'm going to attempt honesty. Be honest with them and tell all 4 or 5 girls that I'm dating/screwing other girls. I will either end up the guy with the best deal on the planet, or in the morgue! Hehe
People? Actually, people of the female kind. I still think it's weird imagining girls talking about me when I'm not around...Originally posted by heater528
Yes i have done it and what i have found is that having 2 gf's at the same time sucks. You gotta make time for 2 chicks.. take 2 chicks out, entertain 2 chicks... i began to miss my own social life and my own friends. I also would be afraid to take them out in our home town because people blab way to easy.
you should always have at least 2 girlfriends at the same timeOriginally posted by dadmonson
If u did then why and how did it turn out?