"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Have u ever had 2 girlfriends at the same time?
- Thread starter dadmonson
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Most of the people that i know that do it or have done it. When they first meet the girl the have the frame that alot of girls mess around with him. I find this better than 1 LTR. I have a friend who used to go out with 2 girls in the same school thing is they hated each other so the 2 girls never found out lol. If they find out depending on the frame you started with it wouldn't really surprise them.
my 2 cents
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Jon341427
Don Juan
i did end up accidently telling one about the other on aim. she made a fake screen name up and got me talking to her. then she asked me if i had a gf and what her name was. well i was positive this girl was gf1 trying to do me dirty. so i said gf1's name. well it turned out to be gf2 behind the keyboard! but i talked my way out of it.
went out with gf1 for 6 months, the other for 4 till i moved away for college.
You'll start to hear things like "Hey you! What do I have to call a couple days in advance to get a date with you?"
"Why are you always so busy?"
"You don't have a girlfriend do you?" (I always find it hard to keep a straight face when I say "No")
It's funny because girl #1 will ask you these questions, then girl #2 will ask you the same shyt the next night and so on...you'll hear these questions a lot. Key is to never fully answer them. Just give them some half-assed, aloof answer with a ****y smile(Although this is pushing it if you don't have good game).
The funniest is when you respond "Yeah I have 4 or 5 girlfriends. And I'm having a hard time fitting you all into my schedule, so just chill out, okay!?" Be serious when you say it, but then smile. She'll think, "Oh, he must be kidding!" Haha!
It's fun for a while, but it gets tiring, and kinda stressful.
In the future, I'm going to attempt honesty. Be honest with them and tell all 4 or 5 girls that I'm dating/screwing other girls. I will either end up the guy with the best deal on the planet, or in the morgue! Hehe
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
satyriasis
Don Juan
if your talking about a realtionship, why even get into one if your gonna have two girlfriends?
BGMan
Master Don Juan
Exactly. I mean, they're probably seeing a few different guys anyway (unless they're AFC-chicks, and we don't date those), so why have a cow over seeing more than one at once?
:crackup:
People? Actually, people of the female kind. I still think it's weird imagining girls talking about me when I'm not around...
BGMan:nervous:
