I'm kind of freaking out about this right now. I've been going out with this girl for about 3 weeks now. I like her a lot and I know she likes me. We are in college, shes a frosh and I'm a year older. At parties we kind of hang on each, stuff like sitting on the couch with a lot of kino. Last year I was known as the crazy guy who got drunk a lot. But this summer I started working out and trying to improve my appearance in general and I toned down the drinking. I found out today that at the party we were at last night there were a lot of people talking behind my back saying that they don't understand that someone like me could be going out with her and that its like a miracle or something like that. It hurts my feelings when people say that kind of stuff. I just hope that if she likes me she just won't care what people think.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Haters
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