I'm kind of freaking out about this right now. I've been going out with this girl for about 3 weeks now. I like her a lot and I know she likes me. We are in college, shes a frosh and I'm a year older. At parties we kind of hang on each, stuff like sitting on the couch with a lot of kino. Last year I was known as the crazy guy who got drunk a lot. But this summer I started working out and trying to improve my appearance in general and I toned down the drinking. I found out today that at the party we were at last night there were a lot of people talking behind my back saying that they don't understand that someone like me could be going out with her and that its like a miracle or something like that. It hurts my feelings when people say that kind of stuff. I just hope that if she likes me she just won't care what people think.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Haters
- Thread starter bud_2005
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