"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bud_2005

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I'm kind of freaking out about this right now. I've been going out with this girl for about 3 weeks now. I like her a lot and I know she likes me. We are in college, shes a frosh and I'm a year older. At parties we kind of hang on each, stuff like sitting on the couch with a lot of kino. Last year I was known as the crazy guy who got drunk a lot. But this summer I started working out and trying to improve my appearance in general and I toned down the drinking. I found out today that at the party we were at last night there were a lot of people talking behind my back saying that they don't understand that someone like me could be going out with her and that its like a miracle or something like that. It hurts my feelings when people say that kind of stuff. I just hope that if she likes me she just won't care what people think.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bunk 040

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Just brush that **** off yo shoulders, you can see they aint with her. If people aint hating on you then start worrying.

They gotta hate, it's they job.
 

bud_2005

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Even though it does hurt my feelings a little, like you said I got the girl and they don't. The only thing I'm really worried about all that talk coming back around to her and she'll rethink our relationship. Hopefully girls are quite as like that once they get out of high school
 

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If she rethinks it then just let her do her thing, and keep your composure and let her go. Dont be crying and dont tell her why she should stay with you, let her do her and you do you.

But I dont think she gon dump you cuz of dat ****, but if she do she a duck as ho.
 

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no worries.. just dont care of them since they are getting jealous of you..in fact if i were you, i would make them double crazy.. what she thinks about you is the important point.. and i dont think that she is gonna believe to them as long as you're cool with her..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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