"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bud_2005

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I'm kind of freaking out about this right now. I've been going out with this girl for about 3 weeks now. I like her a lot and I know she likes me. We are in college, shes a frosh and I'm a year older. At parties we kind of hang on each, stuff like sitting on the couch with a lot of kino. Last year I was known as the crazy guy who got drunk a lot. But this summer I started working out and trying to improve my appearance in general and I toned down the drinking. I found out today that at the party we were at last night there were a lot of people talking behind my back saying that they don't understand that someone like me could be going out with her and that its like a miracle or something like that. It hurts my feelings when people say that kind of stuff. I just hope that if she likes me she just won't care what people think.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bunk 040

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Just brush that **** off yo shoulders, you can see they aint with her. If people aint hating on you then start worrying.

They gotta hate, it's they job.
 

bud_2005

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Even though it does hurt my feelings a little, like you said I got the girl and they don't. The only thing I'm really worried about all that talk coming back around to her and she'll rethink our relationship. Hopefully girls are quite as like that once they get out of high school
 

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If she rethinks it then just let her do her thing, and keep your composure and let her go. Dont be crying and dont tell her why she should stay with you, let her do her and you do you.

But I dont think she gon dump you cuz of dat ****, but if she do she a duck as ho.
 

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no worries.. just dont care of them since they are getting jealous of you..in fact if i were you, i would make them double crazy.. what she thinks about you is the important point.. and i dont think that she is gonna believe to them as long as you're cool with her..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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