“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Has Your Oneitis Ever Hated You?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If she doesn't want anything to do with you, use it to help you get some distance and get her out of your head. Whatever you do don't go kissing up to her and supplicating to try to get in her good books, it will only dig your hole deeper anyway.
What made her start hating you anyway?
Anyway, the oneitis went on for about 7 months and it physically hurt. I couldnt talk to this girl at all so like a afc i got her aim s/n without asking her and i i'md her. Doing this along with telling a good number of people i liked her along with stalking her to work up the balls to say something to her made her strongly dislike me and think i'm a total creep.
How did i deal with it?
This website, when i learned what oneitis is. I always felt giving up on her would be like a defeat, you knoe what they say....never give up etc etc, so i didnt. Finally, I just said you know what, you have oneitis, big time, stop or i'd honestly die. The tension I put on myself from being a shy ass kid who couldnt talk to this dumb b1tch grew so extreme i lost some hair for god sakes. My hair went normal thank god after i got over her, but damn that was a absolute low. This was a while ago but its so clear. Think about that....7 monthss obsessing on a girl you can't even work the balls up to talk to. amazing
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
damn...you lost hair? do you mean you were going bald in some places or did your hairline receed? Because damn, when me and my oneitis(chick i used to date) were fighting not too long ago, I noticed that my hairline obviously receeded. I asked my mom if receeding hairlines was genetic in her side or my dads and she said "neither"(which is true)...it was pretty drastic too. We're good now so im hoping that my hairline goes back to normal...how long did it take?SexinEar said:The tension I put on myself from being a shy ass kid who couldnt talk to this dumb b1tch grew so extreme i lost some hair for god sakes. My hair went normal thank god after i got over her, but damn that was a absolute low.
Yea mine receeded, a little bit but if I pushed my hair back it was pretty noticiable. Point being I was 15!!, but it grew back to normal when the stress was gone and i forgot about her and went after other girls and broke the shyness in my case. Get rid of the stress for number 1.Rebound Material said:damn...you lost hair? do you mean you were going bald in some places or did your hairline receed? Because damn, when me and my oneitis(chick i used to date) were fighting not too long ago, I noticed that my hairline obviously receeded. I asked my mom if receeding hairlines was genetic in her side or my dads and she said "neither"(which is true)...it was pretty drastic too. We're good now so im hoping that my hairline goes back to normal...how long did it take?
For number2
At the time I was scared, I was 15, my hairline was receding, I wnet to the doctor and he said it was proubly stress and told me to get this shampoo, Selsun Blue healthier scalp, dandriff shampoo and that helped as well i guess.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
I've never heard of losing your hair ROFL.
Anyway man, what someone else said is right, instead of focusing on getting her to like you, eliminate it, if you've freaked her out already its too late.
It's hard to explain. This was back in college so I haven't even seen her in two years. I was basically reacting poorly (and idiotically) to the fact that she didn't want to be my girlfriend and she was angry about it. I couldn't help it because I felt like I got burned for no reason. The last time we 'talked' we just exchanged a "hi" coldly and walked past each other. I graduated the following week. It' s weird that I still think about her because a lot has happened for me in those two years. I guess you still kind of wonder.JJMcLure said:What made her start hating you anyway?
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
I hope mine grows back regardless...sh!t, this receeding crap just isnt gonna cut it...SexinEar said:And my hair went back to normal in a couple of weeks btw.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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