Has Your Oneitis Ever Hated You?

[Juan_Man]

If so, how did you deal with it.

 

[JJMcLure]

If you've got a oneitis you need to work on getting over the oneitis rather than caring if she hates you. Do a search.

If she doesn't want anything to do with you, use it to help you get some distance and get her out of your head. Whatever you do don't go kissing up to her and supplicating to try to get in her good books, it will only dig your hole deeper anyway.

What made her start hating you anyway?

 

[SexinEar]

When I was WBAFC, my oneitis was a girl I didn't even talk to and didn't know, I was way to shy to, she was just in a class or two in my school. It just got worse and worse to the point where I would plan out what I would say and I never would say anything to her except maybe can I borrow a pen. Wow what a loser I was.

Anyway, the oneitis went on for about 7 months and it physically hurt. I couldnt talk to this girl at all so like a afc i got her aim s/n without asking her and i i'md her. Doing this along with telling a good number of people i liked her along with stalking her to work up the balls to say something to her made her strongly dislike me and think i'm a total creep.

How did i deal with it?

This website, when i learned what oneitis is. I always felt giving up on her would be like a defeat, you knoe what they say....never give up etc etc, so i didnt. Finally, I just said you know what, you have oneitis, big time, stop or i'd honestly die. The tension I put on myself from being a shy ass kid who couldnt talk to this dumb b1tch grew so extreme i lost some hair for god sakes. My hair went normal thank god after i got over her, but damn that was a absolute low. This was a while ago but its so clear. Think about that....7 monthss obsessing on a girl you can't even work the balls up to talk to. amazing

 

[Rebound Material]

The tension I put on myself from being a shy ass kid who couldnt talk to this dumb b1tch grew so extreme i lost some hair for god sakes. My hair went normal thank god after i got over her, but damn that was a absolute low.

damn...you lost hair? do you mean you were going bald in some places or did your hairline receed? Because damn, when me and my oneitis(chick i used to date) were fighting not too long ago, I noticed that my hairline obviously receeded. I asked my mom if receeding hairlines was genetic in her side or my dads and she said "neither"(which is true)...it was pretty drastic too. We're good now so im hoping that my hairline goes back to normal...how long did it take?

 

[SexinEar]

damn...you lost hair? do you mean you were going bald in some places or did your hairline receed? Because damn, when me and my oneitis(chick i used to date) were fighting not too long ago, I noticed that my hairline obviously receeded. I asked my mom if receeding hairlines was genetic in her side or my dads and she said "neither"(which is true)...it was pretty drastic too. We're good now so im hoping that my hairline goes back to normal...how long did it take?

Yea mine receeded, a little bit but if I pushed my hair back it was pretty noticiable. Point being I was 15!!, but it grew back to normal when the stress was gone and i forgot about her and went after other girls and broke the shyness in my case. Get rid of the stress for number 1.

For number2

At the time I was scared, I was 15, my hairline was receding, I wnet to the doctor and he said it was proubly stress and told me to get this shampoo, Selsun Blue healthier scalp, dandriff shampoo and that helped as well i guess.

 

[SexinEar]

And my hair went back to normal in a couple of weeks btw.

 

[pooparu]

LMAO we need to write an, "The best experiences of AFCS" book.

I've never heard of losing your hair ROFL.

Anyway man, what someone else said is right, instead of focusing on getting her to like you, eliminate it, if you've freaked her out already its too late.

 

[SexinEar]

^
Yea man, losing your hair bc of a girl would definatley be a afc all star moment lol

 

[Juan_Man]

What made her start hating you anyway?

It's hard to explain. This was back in college so I haven't even seen her in two years. I was basically reacting poorly (and idiotically) to the fact that she didn't want to be my girlfriend and she was angry about it. I couldn't help it because I felt like I got burned for no reason. The last time we 'talked' we just exchanged a "hi" coldly and walked past each other. I graduated the following week. It' s weird that I still think about her because a lot has happened for me in those two years. I guess you still kind of wonder.

 

[Rebound Material]

And my hair went back to normal in a couple of weeks btw.

I hope mine grows back regardless...sh!t, this receeding crap just isnt gonna cut it...

 

[Ace of Flames]

Don't deal with some girl that you've lost any chance with. Deal with your obsession over the girl you've lost any chance with. That's about all that needs to be said.