Lil' Pervert
Don Juan
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BUMPity.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Has anyone ever read any of Red-xL's posts????
- Thread starter StuartScott
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Cyledehysp
Don Juan
bump - what a collection!
I`m wondering if there is more great but lost stuff only on some hard drives...
I`m wondering if there is more great but lost stuff only on some hard drives...
Lost
Master Don Juan
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!
i used to have ab ookmark to this and it stoppd working, thank god its still around.
i used to have ab ookmark to this and it stoppd working, thank god its still around.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lost
Master Don Juan
someone make sure this never goes away, in fact, im so paranoid i think im gonna copy paste it to a file just in case something happens ;D
drixsa
Master Don Juan
red, where you been all this time?
and why did you want all your posts taken off?
and why did you want all your posts taken off?
REd-xL
Master Don Juan
I haven't been around because I'm a busy person.
As far as deleting my posts go, I wanted to write a book on seduction, and I thought I'd run into copyright troubles reusing the material I've come up with and shared on these boards because the threads are owned by sosuave.com. But then I decided I don't want to write a book, and it really wouldn't have mattered anyway.
Rx
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
this is like a cherry on top
Capi Crimini
Banned
Ah. Well In research we find good things. a big read but... ah here it goes.......BUMP