Lil' Pervert
Don Juan
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BUMPity.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Has anyone ever read any of Red-xL's posts????
- Thread starter StuartScott
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Cyledehysp
Don Juan
bump - what a collection!
I`m wondering if there is more great but lost stuff only on some hard drives...
I`m wondering if there is more great but lost stuff only on some hard drives...
Lost
Master Don Juan
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!
i used to have ab ookmark to this and it stoppd working, thank god its still around.
i used to have ab ookmark to this and it stoppd working, thank god its still around.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Lost
Master Don Juan
someone make sure this never goes away, in fact, im so paranoid i think im gonna copy paste it to a file just in case something happens ;D
drixsa
Master Don Juan
red, where you been all this time?
and why did you want all your posts taken off?
and why did you want all your posts taken off?
REd-xL
Master Don Juan
I haven't been around because I'm a busy person.
As far as deleting my posts go, I wanted to write a book on seduction, and I thought I'd run into copyright troubles reusing the material I've come up with and shared on these boards because the threads are owned by sosuave.com. But then I decided I don't want to write a book, and it really wouldn't have mattered anyway.
Rx
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
this is like a cherry on top
Capi Crimini
Banned
Ah. Well In research we find good things. a big read but... ah here it goes.......BUMP