Lil' Pervert
Don Juan
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BUMPity.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Has anyone ever read any of Red-xL's posts????
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Cyledehysp
Don Juan
bump - what a collection!
I`m wondering if there is more great but lost stuff only on some hard drives...
I`m wondering if there is more great but lost stuff only on some hard drives...
Lost
Master Don Juan
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!
i used to have ab ookmark to this and it stoppd working, thank god its still around.
i used to have ab ookmark to this and it stoppd working, thank god its still around.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lost
Master Don Juan
someone make sure this never goes away, in fact, im so paranoid i think im gonna copy paste it to a file just in case something happens ;D
drixsa
Master Don Juan
red, where you been all this time?
and why did you want all your posts taken off?
and why did you want all your posts taken off?
REd-xL
Master Don Juan
I haven't been around because I'm a busy person.
As far as deleting my posts go, I wanted to write a book on seduction, and I thought I'd run into copyright troubles reusing the material I've come up with and shared on these boards because the threads are owned by sosuave.com. But then I decided I don't want to write a book, and it really wouldn't have mattered anyway.
Rx
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
this is like a cherry on top
Capi Crimini
Banned
Ah. Well In research we find good things. a big read but... ah here it goes.......BUMP