"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Has anyone ever read any of Red-xL's posts????

Lil' Pervert

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BUMPity.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cyledehysp

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bump - what a collection!

I`m wondering if there is more great but lost stuff only on some hard drives...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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someone make sure this never goes away, in fact, im so paranoid i think im gonna copy paste it to a file just in case something happens ;D
 

REd-xL

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Originally posted by drixsa
red, where you been all this time?

and why did you want all your posts taken off?
I haven't been around because I'm a busy person.

As far as deleting my posts go, I wanted to write a book on seduction, and I thought I'd run into copyright troubles reusing the material I've come up with and shared on these boards because the threads are owned by sosuave.com. But then I decided I don't want to write a book, and it really wouldn't have mattered anyway.

Rx
 

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share with us rather than writing a book. You made a smart choice ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ah. Well In research we find good things. a big read but... ah here it goes.......BUMP:D
 
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