this is just a survey... do you get/have a hard on when you are dancing with a woman in a club/bar/or party - by dancing i mean like "freaking" her ass all up in your lap...so... i usually do get one, and i am very sure they can feel it, but i just want to know if this is normal or... if i should like "rub one out" before going...? thanks
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
hard-on while dancing?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MrCode
Senior Don Juan
Yeah that happens to me too and I'm quite sure other guys. Even with girls I'm not that attracted to it happens. It is natural, if a female is rubbing on your crotch, it will have an affect.
The chics like it anyhow. They want the d*ck.
The chics like it anyhow. They want the d*ck.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
yeah i find they move harder when they feel it. last night one was driving me nuts cause she was just moving the right way, she was about a hb7 (her ass was the best quality).....she was going back and forth, back and frorth.....lol i almos came right there lol
I usually do get a hardon. But there was a time when this girl was telling me and some friends that she thought it was gross when a guy was dancing with her with hardon. I was pretty much thinking "what the phuck" but last girl I danced with was rubbing all into my ****, and it felt good.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
4 girls last night i did that with, I had my hands all over 2 of them, the one i got soooooo freaking horny....i knew i coulda gotten a **** outta her and maby a 3some with her friend but the whole STD thing bugs me. Thanks to the help to this site, no matter how horny i am i can resist any girl which makes me feel really powerful. Anyway this girl was about 7 maby 7.5. I'd give her a little higher rating just cause she was good at moving.... lol
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
the hottest one i danced with just before i just thought in my head "**** it, im gonna try this hot one and see where it goes' she seemed a little stuck up so I neg hit her and said she's the clumiest chick i'v seen all day since she stumbled for a sec. She looked red and said "sorry".....then i danced with her, unortinately it only lasted for a song and then she sent on some other guy.....o well.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
by the way she was a 9
DeathDealer
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Girls actually find it a compliment, not a necessary turn-on or anything. They understand sh1t like that happens, carry on.
until you are older
Mate, that is completely normal until you hit a certain age. I dont know what that age is exactly, but it is an abundance of testosterone and excitement. Same as watching a dog humping a leg, they grow out of it. Thing is, it doesn't happen anymore for me, but I kinda wish it did. It is the reason 18 to 24 year olds are sent to war....more testosterone than brains, but it is something you miss.
I think it is partially physical and partially to do with being jaded. Anyway, enjoy being Mr Everready while you can...it will pass.
Mate, that is completely normal until you hit a certain age. I dont know what that age is exactly, but it is an abundance of testosterone and excitement. Same as watching a dog humping a leg, they grow out of it. Thing is, it doesn't happen anymore for me, but I kinda wish it did. It is the reason 18 to 24 year olds are sent to war....more testosterone than brains, but it is something you miss.
I think it is partially physical and partially to do with being jaded. Anyway, enjoy being Mr Everready while you can...it will pass.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
djonmustard
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it happens more often than you would think.
Just listen to the lyrics in Next - Too close
Just listen to the lyrics in Next - Too close