this is just a survey... do you get/have a hard on when you are dancing with a woman in a club/bar/or party - by dancing i mean like "freaking" her ass all up in your lap...so... i usually do get one, and i am very sure they can feel it, but i just want to know if this is normal or... if i should like "rub one out" before going...? thanks
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
hard-on while dancing?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MrCode
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Yeah that happens to me too and I'm quite sure other guys. Even with girls I'm not that attracted to it happens. It is natural, if a female is rubbing on your crotch, it will have an affect.
The chics like it anyhow. They want the d*ck.
The chics like it anyhow. They want the d*ck.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
yeah i find they move harder when they feel it. last night one was driving me nuts cause she was just moving the right way, she was about a hb7 (her ass was the best quality).....she was going back and forth, back and frorth.....lol i almos came right there lol
I usually do get a hardon. But there was a time when this girl was telling me and some friends that she thought it was gross when a guy was dancing with her with hardon. I was pretty much thinking "what the phuck" but last girl I danced with was rubbing all into my ****, and it felt good.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
4 girls last night i did that with, I had my hands all over 2 of them, the one i got soooooo freaking horny....i knew i coulda gotten a **** outta her and maby a 3some with her friend but the whole STD thing bugs me. Thanks to the help to this site, no matter how horny i am i can resist any girl which makes me feel really powerful. Anyway this girl was about 7 maby 7.5. I'd give her a little higher rating just cause she was good at moving.... lol
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
the hottest one i danced with just before i just thought in my head "**** it, im gonna try this hot one and see where it goes' she seemed a little stuck up so I neg hit her and said she's the clumiest chick i'v seen all day since she stumbled for a sec. She looked red and said "sorry".....then i danced with her, unortinately it only lasted for a song and then she sent on some other guy.....o well.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
by the way she was a 9
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Girls actually find it a compliment, not a necessary turn-on or anything. They understand sh1t like that happens, carry on.
until you are older
Mate, that is completely normal until you hit a certain age. I dont know what that age is exactly, but it is an abundance of testosterone and excitement. Same as watching a dog humping a leg, they grow out of it. Thing is, it doesn't happen anymore for me, but I kinda wish it did. It is the reason 18 to 24 year olds are sent to war....more testosterone than brains, but it is something you miss.
I think it is partially physical and partially to do with being jaded. Anyway, enjoy being Mr Everready while you can...it will pass.
Mate, that is completely normal until you hit a certain age. I dont know what that age is exactly, but it is an abundance of testosterone and excitement. Same as watching a dog humping a leg, they grow out of it. Thing is, it doesn't happen anymore for me, but I kinda wish it did. It is the reason 18 to 24 year olds are sent to war....more testosterone than brains, but it is something you miss.
I think it is partially physical and partially to do with being jaded. Anyway, enjoy being Mr Everready while you can...it will pass.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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it happens more often than you would think.
Just listen to the lyrics in Next - Too close
Just listen to the lyrics in Next - Too close