this is just a survey... do you get/have a hard on when you are dancing with a woman in a club/bar/or party - by dancing i mean like "freaking" her ass all up in your lap...so... i usually do get one, and i am very sure they can feel it, but i just want to know if this is normal or... if i should like "rub one out" before going...? thanks
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
hard-on while dancing?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MrCode
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Yeah that happens to me too and I'm quite sure other guys. Even with girls I'm not that attracted to it happens. It is natural, if a female is rubbing on your crotch, it will have an affect.
The chics like it anyhow. They want the d*ck.
The chics like it anyhow. They want the d*ck.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
yeah i find they move harder when they feel it. last night one was driving me nuts cause she was just moving the right way, she was about a hb7 (her ass was the best quality).....she was going back and forth, back and frorth.....lol i almos came right there lol
I usually do get a hardon. But there was a time when this girl was telling me and some friends that she thought it was gross when a guy was dancing with her with hardon. I was pretty much thinking "what the phuck" but last girl I danced with was rubbing all into my ****, and it felt good.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
4 girls last night i did that with, I had my hands all over 2 of them, the one i got soooooo freaking horny....i knew i coulda gotten a **** outta her and maby a 3some with her friend but the whole STD thing bugs me. Thanks to the help to this site, no matter how horny i am i can resist any girl which makes me feel really powerful. Anyway this girl was about 7 maby 7.5. I'd give her a little higher rating just cause she was good at moving.... lol
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
the hottest one i danced with just before i just thought in my head "**** it, im gonna try this hot one and see where it goes' she seemed a little stuck up so I neg hit her and said she's the clumiest chick i'v seen all day since she stumbled for a sec. She looked red and said "sorry".....then i danced with her, unortinately it only lasted for a song and then she sent on some other guy.....o well.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
by the way she was a 9
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Girls actually find it a compliment, not a necessary turn-on or anything. They understand sh1t like that happens, carry on.
until you are older
Mate, that is completely normal until you hit a certain age. I dont know what that age is exactly, but it is an abundance of testosterone and excitement. Same as watching a dog humping a leg, they grow out of it. Thing is, it doesn't happen anymore for me, but I kinda wish it did. It is the reason 18 to 24 year olds are sent to war....more testosterone than brains, but it is something you miss.
I think it is partially physical and partially to do with being jaded. Anyway, enjoy being Mr Everready while you can...it will pass.
Mate, that is completely normal until you hit a certain age. I dont know what that age is exactly, but it is an abundance of testosterone and excitement. Same as watching a dog humping a leg, they grow out of it. Thing is, it doesn't happen anymore for me, but I kinda wish it did. It is the reason 18 to 24 year olds are sent to war....more testosterone than brains, but it is something you miss.
I think it is partially physical and partially to do with being jaded. Anyway, enjoy being Mr Everready while you can...it will pass.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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it happens more often than you would think.
Just listen to the lyrics in Next - Too close
Just listen to the lyrics in Next - Too close