this is just a survey... do you get/have a hard on when you are dancing with a woman in a club/bar/or party - by dancing i mean like "freaking" her ass all up in your lap...so... i usually do get one, and i am very sure they can feel it, but i just want to know if this is normal or... if i should like "rub one out" before going...? thanks
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hard-on while dancing?
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MrCode
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Yeah that happens to me too and I'm quite sure other guys. Even with girls I'm not that attracted to it happens. It is natural, if a female is rubbing on your crotch, it will have an affect.
The chics like it anyhow. They want the d*ck.
The chics like it anyhow. They want the d*ck.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
yeah i find they move harder when they feel it. last night one was driving me nuts cause she was just moving the right way, she was about a hb7 (her ass was the best quality).....she was going back and forth, back and frorth.....lol i almos came right there lol
I usually do get a hardon. But there was a time when this girl was telling me and some friends that she thought it was gross when a guy was dancing with her with hardon. I was pretty much thinking "what the phuck" but last girl I danced with was rubbing all into my ****, and it felt good.
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Fenderules
Master Don Juan
4 girls last night i did that with, I had my hands all over 2 of them, the one i got soooooo freaking horny....i knew i coulda gotten a **** outta her and maby a 3some with her friend but the whole STD thing bugs me. Thanks to the help to this site, no matter how horny i am i can resist any girl which makes me feel really powerful. Anyway this girl was about 7 maby 7.5. I'd give her a little higher rating just cause she was good at moving.... lol
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
the hottest one i danced with just before i just thought in my head "**** it, im gonna try this hot one and see where it goes' she seemed a little stuck up so I neg hit her and said she's the clumiest chick i'v seen all day since she stumbled for a sec. She looked red and said "sorry".....then i danced with her, unortinately it only lasted for a song and then she sent on some other guy.....o well.
Fenderules
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by the way she was a 9
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Girls actually find it a compliment, not a necessary turn-on or anything. They understand sh1t like that happens, carry on.
until you are older
Mate, that is completely normal until you hit a certain age. I dont know what that age is exactly, but it is an abundance of testosterone and excitement. Same as watching a dog humping a leg, they grow out of it. Thing is, it doesn't happen anymore for me, but I kinda wish it did. It is the reason 18 to 24 year olds are sent to war....more testosterone than brains, but it is something you miss.
I think it is partially physical and partially to do with being jaded. Anyway, enjoy being Mr Everready while you can...it will pass.
Mate, that is completely normal until you hit a certain age. I dont know what that age is exactly, but it is an abundance of testosterone and excitement. Same as watching a dog humping a leg, they grow out of it. Thing is, it doesn't happen anymore for me, but I kinda wish it did. It is the reason 18 to 24 year olds are sent to war....more testosterone than brains, but it is something you miss.
I think it is partially physical and partially to do with being jaded. Anyway, enjoy being Mr Everready while you can...it will pass.
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it happens more often than you would think.
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