"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hanging up the gloves? When does a DJ call it a day?

TonyBaloney

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Hey guys, need a bit of inspiration here.

Getting the the ripe old age of 39, and questioning the lifestyle.

Thing is its only really now after many years and many women that it flows good and girls are easy to come by - BUT on the down side, you notice girls in the target age who are still single can be fooked up (see my earlier posts on BPD ex) - and there is a limit to the age of tail that you can chase...or is there ;) Also, all the wingmen dry up and settle down, and u end up as the "old lech".... moan moan moan... Any body got any ideas to get me out of the mind slump?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yo'Mama

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TonyBaloney said:
Hey guys, need a bit of inspiration here.

Getting the the ripe old age of 39, and questioning the lifestyle.

Thing is its only really now after many years and many women that it flows good and girls are easy to come by - BUT on the down side, you notice girls in the target age who are still single can be fooked up (see my earlier posts on BPD ex) - and there is a limit to the age of tail that you can chase...or is there ;) Also, all the wingmen dry up and settle down, and u end up as the "old lech".... moan moan moan... Any body got any ideas to get me out of the mind slump?
If you're genuinely bored of it maybe hang up the boots. If you think you SHOULD settle down and/or stop chasing tail because society/family/friends expect it, then f*ck that.
 

Htienvu

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A "DJ" never hangs up his gloves, this is because being a "DJ" is not about chasing women, it's a mindset. Always improving oneself, striving for better and being a man.
 

marmel75

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If they make a comment about your age, steal one fron Style:

"I'm young enough to do it often and old enough to do it right"

I am banging a 22 year old right now as a fb and she is pretty impressed with my abilities compared to guys her age. I am going to be turning 37 in a few weeks. However, I am in fantastic shape and workout 5 days a week. Muscular and fit still pulls the young ones even at 37...when I wear a fitted shirt to the bar or club watch out!!

My advice would be to hit the gym hard...it really does make you look younger..most girls think I am in my late 20s to early 30s
 

J Roc

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Htienvu said:
A "DJ" never hangs up his gloves, this is because being a "DJ" is not about chasing women, it's a mindset. Always improving oneself, striving for better and being a man.
co-sign.
DJ = Lifestyle.

Pick Up Artist = Gimmick
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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