"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hanging up the gloves? When does a DJ call it a day?

TonyBaloney

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Hey guys, need a bit of inspiration here.

Getting the the ripe old age of 39, and questioning the lifestyle.

Thing is its only really now after many years and many women that it flows good and girls are easy to come by - BUT on the down side, you notice girls in the target age who are still single can be fooked up (see my earlier posts on BPD ex) - and there is a limit to the age of tail that you can chase...or is there ;) Also, all the wingmen dry up and settle down, and u end up as the "old lech".... moan moan moan... Any body got any ideas to get me out of the mind slump?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yo'Mama

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TonyBaloney said:
Hey guys, need a bit of inspiration here.

Getting the the ripe old age of 39, and questioning the lifestyle.

Thing is its only really now after many years and many women that it flows good and girls are easy to come by - BUT on the down side, you notice girls in the target age who are still single can be fooked up (see my earlier posts on BPD ex) - and there is a limit to the age of tail that you can chase...or is there ;) Also, all the wingmen dry up and settle down, and u end up as the "old lech".... moan moan moan... Any body got any ideas to get me out of the mind slump?
If you're genuinely bored of it maybe hang up the boots. If you think you SHOULD settle down and/or stop chasing tail because society/family/friends expect it, then f*ck that.
 

Htienvu

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A "DJ" never hangs up his gloves, this is because being a "DJ" is not about chasing women, it's a mindset. Always improving oneself, striving for better and being a man.
 

marmel75

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If they make a comment about your age, steal one fron Style:

"I'm young enough to do it often and old enough to do it right"

I am banging a 22 year old right now as a fb and she is pretty impressed with my abilities compared to guys her age. I am going to be turning 37 in a few weeks. However, I am in fantastic shape and workout 5 days a week. Muscular and fit still pulls the young ones even at 37...when I wear a fitted shirt to the bar or club watch out!!

My advice would be to hit the gym hard...it really does make you look younger..most girls think I am in my late 20s to early 30s
 

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Htienvu said:
A "DJ" never hangs up his gloves, this is because being a "DJ" is not about chasing women, it's a mindset. Always improving oneself, striving for better and being a man.
co-sign.
DJ = Lifestyle.

Pick Up Artist = Gimmick
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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