"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hanging up the gloves? When does a DJ call it a day?

TonyBaloney

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Hey guys, need a bit of inspiration here.

Getting the the ripe old age of 39, and questioning the lifestyle.

Thing is its only really now after many years and many women that it flows good and girls are easy to come by - BUT on the down side, you notice girls in the target age who are still single can be fooked up (see my earlier posts on BPD ex) - and there is a limit to the age of tail that you can chase...or is there ;) Also, all the wingmen dry up and settle down, and u end up as the "old lech".... moan moan moan... Any body got any ideas to get me out of the mind slump?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yo'Mama

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TonyBaloney said:
Hey guys, need a bit of inspiration here.

Getting the the ripe old age of 39, and questioning the lifestyle.

Thing is its only really now after many years and many women that it flows good and girls are easy to come by - BUT on the down side, you notice girls in the target age who are still single can be fooked up (see my earlier posts on BPD ex) - and there is a limit to the age of tail that you can chase...or is there ;) Also, all the wingmen dry up and settle down, and u end up as the "old lech".... moan moan moan... Any body got any ideas to get me out of the mind slump?
If you're genuinely bored of it maybe hang up the boots. If you think you SHOULD settle down and/or stop chasing tail because society/family/friends expect it, then f*ck that.
 

Htienvu

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A "DJ" never hangs up his gloves, this is because being a "DJ" is not about chasing women, it's a mindset. Always improving oneself, striving for better and being a man.
 

marmel75

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If they make a comment about your age, steal one fron Style:

"I'm young enough to do it often and old enough to do it right"

I am banging a 22 year old right now as a fb and she is pretty impressed with my abilities compared to guys her age. I am going to be turning 37 in a few weeks. However, I am in fantastic shape and workout 5 days a week. Muscular and fit still pulls the young ones even at 37...when I wear a fitted shirt to the bar or club watch out!!

My advice would be to hit the gym hard...it really does make you look younger..most girls think I am in my late 20s to early 30s
 

J Roc

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Htienvu said:
A "DJ" never hangs up his gloves, this is because being a "DJ" is not about chasing women, it's a mindset. Always improving oneself, striving for better and being a man.
co-sign.
DJ = Lifestyle.

Pick Up Artist = Gimmick
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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