"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hanging up the gloves? When does a DJ call it a day?

TonyBaloney

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Hey guys, need a bit of inspiration here.

Getting the the ripe old age of 39, and questioning the lifestyle.

Thing is its only really now after many years and many women that it flows good and girls are easy to come by - BUT on the down side, you notice girls in the target age who are still single can be fooked up (see my earlier posts on BPD ex) - and there is a limit to the age of tail that you can chase...or is there ;) Also, all the wingmen dry up and settle down, and u end up as the "old lech".... moan moan moan... Any body got any ideas to get me out of the mind slump?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yo'Mama

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TonyBaloney said:
Hey guys, need a bit of inspiration here.

Getting the the ripe old age of 39, and questioning the lifestyle.

Thing is its only really now after many years and many women that it flows good and girls are easy to come by - BUT on the down side, you notice girls in the target age who are still single can be fooked up (see my earlier posts on BPD ex) - and there is a limit to the age of tail that you can chase...or is there ;) Also, all the wingmen dry up and settle down, and u end up as the "old lech".... moan moan moan... Any body got any ideas to get me out of the mind slump?
If you're genuinely bored of it maybe hang up the boots. If you think you SHOULD settle down and/or stop chasing tail because society/family/friends expect it, then f*ck that.
 

Htienvu

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A "DJ" never hangs up his gloves, this is because being a "DJ" is not about chasing women, it's a mindset. Always improving oneself, striving for better and being a man.
 

marmel75

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If they make a comment about your age, steal one fron Style:

"I'm young enough to do it often and old enough to do it right"

I am banging a 22 year old right now as a fb and she is pretty impressed with my abilities compared to guys her age. I am going to be turning 37 in a few weeks. However, I am in fantastic shape and workout 5 days a week. Muscular and fit still pulls the young ones even at 37...when I wear a fitted shirt to the bar or club watch out!!

My advice would be to hit the gym hard...it really does make you look younger..most girls think I am in my late 20s to early 30s
 

J Roc

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Htienvu said:
A "DJ" never hangs up his gloves, this is because being a "DJ" is not about chasing women, it's a mindset. Always improving oneself, striving for better and being a man.
co-sign.
DJ = Lifestyle.

Pick Up Artist = Gimmick
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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