I'm going to a halloween party on friday and am looking for costumes that will help me stand out from everyone else. Anyone have an ideas? I was thinking about going as a tampon but I couldn't figure out how to make the costume.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Halloween Party - Costumes to Stand Out?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Egoist
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
qweretyuiopas
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I wish I could afford this full body gorilla costume
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Kid Rock, Ric Flair, or the ever popular man in uniform...
Pimp-sicle
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I don't think its as important to be something really unique, as it is to make sure your costume looks really good!!! Make sure it brings out your best qualities and get all the details down. That's my experience with Halloween costumes, girls notice the guys who look good just like any other day, its just that on this night you can role play too...
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I'm either going to be a Wallaby or Daisy Duke for halloween. Both of them are probably going to be 'peacocky'.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bible_Belt
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Attach a real box of wine on the inside to feed chicks.
Attach a real box of wine on the inside to feed chicks.
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the devil for me
the cool, seductive devil
the cool, seductive devil
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zorro. you can thank me after you get laid.
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lol! thats a good one
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SlyD4rK
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lol....awesome. im doing the same but with a pirate costume..getting authentic quality stuff and all.
you mentioned that i thought to myself.....hmm...ninjas...pirates are better; lol their is a pirate/ninja war every year around halloween at my highschool..last year i was a ninja...now im a pirate...its ridiculous how out of control this little feud gets. about 10 peope were suspended last year...one arrested
Bonhomme
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People tell me I look just like Alex in "Clockwork Orange," but I may not have enough time to put it together this year. Been so hella busy it's beyond belief....
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That is one amazing costume, Bible Belt!
A friend of mine had the best I've heard of. She teamed up with a guy who dressed as a waiter, and she was a severed head he carried around on a plate. A bit strenuous, but amazing.
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That is one amazing costume, Bible Belt!
A friend of mine had the best I've heard of. She teamed up with a guy who dressed as a waiter, and she was a severed head he carried around on a plate. A bit strenuous, but amazing.
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why toy guns? you needa bust some heads at the party and show whoes boss
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.