CribMaster345
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i have straight hair & i was just wondering what the best way to do my hair is like what's the most attractive or whatever
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
hairstyles
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
UniqueSoul
Don Juan
Well, the best way outta this would be just to get yourself to some big@ss shop, where you would be able to find a WHOLE LOT OF hairstyling substances. Getchaself some. Or ask the clerks what would be suitable for you. And when you get back home, close the door, lock yaself up in the bathroom and FIRE IT UP. You won't even notice how time passes (of course i'm talking bout hairstyling). Experimenting is the best way to achieve sth. Good luck.
CableLight
Master Don Juan
Let it grow long 
CaptainSlinky
Master Don Juan
I've been experimenting with this. I haven't had it cut in about 2 1/2 months now, (normall I get it cut every 4-5 weeks). It's in beatle's style mode now, and I honestly have no idea what to expect. Should I go see a stylist or something to trim it down and get it set to grow longer?Originally posted by CableLight
Let it grow long
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I have straight hair, i keep it long, slicked back. Its congruent with my image.
Anyways, like it's been suggested go to a gay hairstylist at a salon. They'll hook you up fatty.
Along my different hairstyles, when your growing ur hair, it might not look tyte, but once its grown out and trimmed, it'll be worth it, know what I mean.
There is no most attractive hair, but.. like some ppl say.. shorter hair is more masculine..
And by the way, just cuz a dude want's sick hair, doesn't make you a metro..
just keep it real..
Anyways, like it's been suggested go to a gay hairstylist at a salon. They'll hook you up fatty.
Along my different hairstyles, when your growing ur hair, it might not look tyte, but once its grown out and trimmed, it'll be worth it, know what I mean.
There is no most attractive hair, but.. like some ppl say.. shorter hair is more masculine..
And by the way, just cuz a dude want's sick hair, doesn't make you a metro..
just keep it real..
BustedKnucks
Don Juan
Short hair is the easiest to keep clean looking.
Spikes are also a pretty generic way of looking clean/good.
Spikes are also a pretty generic way of looking clean/good.
LordBrian
Don Juan
thats the way I go.
Vigilante7
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askmen.com had a really good haircuts page...go there
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I personally have long hair and let me say, works like a f*cking charm! Nearly every girl in the school totally digs it. My hair has sort of a gentle curve to it so I'm not really sure about straight hair, but long hair has done wonders for me.
CableLight
Master Don Juan
I think what blienk said about girls liking a dude with nice hair is true...I personally never have really considered my hair to be anything great, but a lot of people tell me it really looks good.
Slinky - If you like it right now, keep it. The bad thing about hair is that it only grows like 1/4 to 1/2 an inch per month, so if you cut it off and decide you wanted it, it takes a while to grow back. Other than that, I have no idea what a Beatles-style would look like when it gets longer
Slinky - If you like it right now, keep it. The bad thing about hair is that it only grows like 1/4 to 1/2 an inch per month, so if you cut it off and decide you wanted it, it takes a while to grow back. Other than that, I have no idea what a Beatles-style would look like when it gets longer
BustedKnucks
Don Juan
Beatles style isn't a very good one.
Personally I think it looks doofy, and it sure as hell isn't original. With more generic haircuts, while true they aren't novel, you still give off an in control appearance, especially if you style it nice with gel.
For long hair, mine is really curly, and for a while I rocked a whiteboy fro. It got annoying though, because I'm pretty active, and there's nothing worse than hair and sweat sticking to your forehead.
Personally I think it looks doofy, and it sure as hell isn't original. With more generic haircuts, while true they aren't novel, you still give off an in control appearance, especially if you style it nice with gel.
For long hair, mine is really curly, and for a while I rocked a whiteboy fro. It got annoying though, because I'm pretty active, and there's nothing worse than hair and sweat sticking to your forehead.
CaptainSlinky
Master Don Juan
Whoops. When I said that, I didn't mean like full blown style, it's just growing out in what seems to me to be in that direction. I wouldn't want to have that style, honestly, I was just using it as a basic description of whatever the hell I have going on now.
Thanks though.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.