"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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CribMaster345

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i have straight hair & i was just wondering what the best way to do my hair is like what's the most attractive or whatever
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, the best way outta this would be just to get yourself to some big@ss shop, where you would be able to find a WHOLE LOT OF hairstyling substances. Getchaself some. Or ask the clerks what would be suitable for you. And when you get back home, close the door, lock yaself up in the bathroom and FIRE IT UP. You won't even notice how time passes (of course i'm talking bout hairstyling). Experimenting is the best way to achieve sth. Good luck.
 

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Let it grow long :D
 

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Originally posted by CableLight
Let it grow long :D
I've been experimenting with this. I haven't had it cut in about 2 1/2 months now, (normall I get it cut every 4-5 weeks). It's in beatle's style mode now, and I honestly have no idea what to expect. Should I go see a stylist or something to trim it down and get it set to grow longer?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have straight hair, i keep it long, slicked back. Its congruent with my image.

Anyways, like it's been suggested go to a gay hairstylist at a salon. They'll hook you up fatty.

Along my different hairstyles, when your growing ur hair, it might not look tyte, but once its grown out and trimmed, it'll be worth it, know what I mean.

There is no most attractive hair, but.. like some ppl say.. shorter hair is more masculine..

And by the way, just cuz a dude want's sick hair, doesn't make you a metro..
just keep it real..
 

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short and spiked works well for me
 

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Originally posted by BustedKnucks
Short hair is the easiest to keep clean looking.

Spikes are also a pretty generic way of looking clean/good.
thats the way I go.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I personally have long hair and let me say, works like a f*cking charm! Nearly every girl in the school totally digs it. My hair has sort of a gentle curve to it so I'm not really sure about straight hair, but long hair has done wonders for me.
 

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Originally posted by BustedKnucks
Short hair is the easiest to keep clean looking.

Spikes are also a pretty generic way of looking clean/good.
Short works for almost everybody, but if you have good hair to do something more elaborate or unique, then go for it...Girls love guys who's hair is more impressive than theirs.
 

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I think what blienk said about girls liking a dude with nice hair is true...I personally never have really considered my hair to be anything great, but a lot of people tell me it really looks good.

Slinky - If you like it right now, keep it. The bad thing about hair is that it only grows like 1/4 to 1/2 an inch per month, so if you cut it off and decide you wanted it, it takes a while to grow back. Other than that, I have no idea what a Beatles-style would look like when it gets longer :)
 

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Beatles style isn't a very good one.

Personally I think it looks doofy, and it sure as hell isn't original. With more generic haircuts, while true they aren't novel, you still give off an in control appearance, especially if you style it nice with gel.

For long hair, mine is really curly, and for a while I rocked a whiteboy fro. It got annoying though, because I'm pretty active, and there's nothing worse than hair and sweat sticking to your forehead.
 

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Originally posted by BustedKnucks
Beatles style isn't a very good one.

Personally I think it looks doofy, and it sure as hell isn't original. With more generic haircuts, while true they aren't novel, you still give off an in control appearance, especially if you style it nice with gel.
Whoops. When I said that, I didn't mean like full blown style, it's just growing out in what seems to me to be in that direction. I wouldn't want to have that style, honestly, I was just using it as a basic description of whatever the hell I have going on now.

Thanks though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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