"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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i have straight hair & i was just wondering what the best way to do my hair is like what's the most attractive or whatever
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, the best way outta this would be just to get yourself to some big@ss shop, where you would be able to find a WHOLE LOT OF hairstyling substances. Getchaself some. Or ask the clerks what would be suitable for you. And when you get back home, close the door, lock yaself up in the bathroom and FIRE IT UP. You won't even notice how time passes (of course i'm talking bout hairstyling). Experimenting is the best way to achieve sth. Good luck.
 

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Let it grow long :D
 

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Originally posted by CableLight
Let it grow long :D
I've been experimenting with this. I haven't had it cut in about 2 1/2 months now, (normall I get it cut every 4-5 weeks). It's in beatle's style mode now, and I honestly have no idea what to expect. Should I go see a stylist or something to trim it down and get it set to grow longer?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have straight hair, i keep it long, slicked back. Its congruent with my image.

Anyways, like it's been suggested go to a gay hairstylist at a salon. They'll hook you up fatty.

Along my different hairstyles, when your growing ur hair, it might not look tyte, but once its grown out and trimmed, it'll be worth it, know what I mean.

There is no most attractive hair, but.. like some ppl say.. shorter hair is more masculine..

And by the way, just cuz a dude want's sick hair, doesn't make you a metro..
just keep it real..
 

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short and spiked works well for me
 

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Originally posted by BustedKnucks
Short hair is the easiest to keep clean looking.

Spikes are also a pretty generic way of looking clean/good.
thats the way I go.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I personally have long hair and let me say, works like a f*cking charm! Nearly every girl in the school totally digs it. My hair has sort of a gentle curve to it so I'm not really sure about straight hair, but long hair has done wonders for me.
 

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Originally posted by BustedKnucks
Short hair is the easiest to keep clean looking.

Spikes are also a pretty generic way of looking clean/good.
Short works for almost everybody, but if you have good hair to do something more elaborate or unique, then go for it...Girls love guys who's hair is more impressive than theirs.
 

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I think what blienk said about girls liking a dude with nice hair is true...I personally never have really considered my hair to be anything great, but a lot of people tell me it really looks good.

Slinky - If you like it right now, keep it. The bad thing about hair is that it only grows like 1/4 to 1/2 an inch per month, so if you cut it off and decide you wanted it, it takes a while to grow back. Other than that, I have no idea what a Beatles-style would look like when it gets longer :)
 

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Beatles style isn't a very good one.

Personally I think it looks doofy, and it sure as hell isn't original. With more generic haircuts, while true they aren't novel, you still give off an in control appearance, especially if you style it nice with gel.

For long hair, mine is really curly, and for a while I rocked a whiteboy fro. It got annoying though, because I'm pretty active, and there's nothing worse than hair and sweat sticking to your forehead.
 

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Originally posted by BustedKnucks
Beatles style isn't a very good one.

Personally I think it looks doofy, and it sure as hell isn't original. With more generic haircuts, while true they aren't novel, you still give off an in control appearance, especially if you style it nice with gel.
Whoops. When I said that, I didn't mean like full blown style, it's just growing out in what seems to me to be in that direction. I wouldn't want to have that style, honestly, I was just using it as a basic description of whatever the hell I have going on now.

Thanks though.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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