"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

hairstyle

napoleon

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2003
Messages
436
Reaction score
0
Location
Aitaorc

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

napoleon

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2003
Messages
436
Reaction score
0
Location
Aitaorc
The front would be a little longer and about the size of an index finger.The rest would be shorter.
I don't want to look like a pretty boy.
 

Kineti[C]harm

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 16, 2003
Messages
1,520
Reaction score
2
ye it's an ok hairstyle atleast if you color it/give it some stripes/tones so it's not completely bland.
 

Kineti[C]harm

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 16, 2003
Messages
1,520
Reaction score
2
you should want the highlights :p they add alot to the looks you have shown
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

jakethasnake

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2001
Messages
3,010
Reaction score
5
I think that picture of Brad Pitt's haircut is pretty cool. That's the look most fashion models have these days - give that a shot.
 

Ixnys

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 12, 2002
Messages
91
Reaction score
0
Location
L.A., California
Maybe you should take both pics to your hair stylists and see which one he thinks will look best on yourself.
 

jakethasnake

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2001
Messages
3,010
Reaction score
5

CLOONEY

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 11, 2002
Messages
3,015
Reaction score
5
The first link is the best. This is exactly the same as my cut, just mine is a LITTLE longer.

If you get it cut, make sure you go to a PROPER hairdresser. It will cost you probably about tripple, haha, maybe about $60, but they thin it and really style it. Normal hairdressers simply cut it and make it look SH*TE!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Kineti[C]harm

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 16, 2003
Messages
1,520
Reaction score
2
My last haircut (with highlights) cost 135$ :p The one 2-3 months before that I paid 90$ for, second one had more colouring/highlighting work :p
 

Mr. Latte

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 15, 2003
Messages
694
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Your best bet is to get a good men's fashion magazine like Details or GQ, look through the ads, find a hairstyle you like, and then take the pic with you.
 

Kineti[C]harm

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 16, 2003
Messages
1,520
Reaction score
2
What I find smart when getting a cut/style is to go someplace that is very good, then I find either an attractive FEMALE or gay (Never found one of those though :p) hairdresser. I then make sure the hairdresser gives me a style that fits my facial features/looks and something she finds attractive but at the same time fits my criterias for what I want.
 

vdk

Don Juan
Joined
May 17, 2003
Messages
198
Reaction score
1
Location
Brisbane, Australia
Just a thought, having long hair is a ***** to maintain. You probably need hair products and longer hair means more product used, means more money. Also, every morning you'll need time of woman proportions to style your hair.

Those type of hairstyles a looked down upon at the office where I used to work. People take you less seriously if you have a boys haircut.

Finally, women want a mans hair to be short. Men want there women to have long hair. I can understand you trying to be different but like clothes, sometimes simplicity is best.

By the way my hairstyle is like the host of American Idol 2. Short and messy, styled with moulding paste. If i'm at the office ill brush my hair down for a more conservative look.
 

jakethasnake

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2001
Messages
3,010
Reaction score
5
P_S,


I don't think this thread is for bald idiots. Go to the "Hair Loss Support Group" thread.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Pap

Don Juan
Joined
May 17, 2003
Messages
174
Reaction score
1
Location
Los Angeles, CA
My hair is pretty short and I like to spike it up. Some of my friends like long spikes and even color their hair. I prefer to keep is clean cut and shorter. I'll sometimes get my hair styled for more money, but rarely.
 
Top