"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Haircuts, how often???

Diesel_Power

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I'm curious if it's wired for a guy to be going to his barber say like every 2 weeks? Or every other weekend? Right now I go once a month.

I like the way my hair looks after I've had it cut. Nice and fresh looking. But I hate it when after a week my hair starts to get longer and looks nothing like my hair did after my cut. My hair grows fast and I hate having long hair.

I also feel soo much better after i've had it cut. Like after a workout session. My confidence shoot up and I'm not afriad to talk to any girl. But if I don't like the way my hair is looking I don't feel as good and I start going AFC until I go to the barber again.

I don't care if you guys tell my im being obsessive. Atleast that way I know im overreacting and I can relax about it.

I guess guys who like to get really short haircuts know what im talking about.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KillaCam

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If it works for you, no need to worry about it. Although you might be racking up a fairly unhealthy barber bill over a period of time right?

I've got my own clipper set, and give it a buzz with a #4 every 1 1/2 - 2 weeks. It ain't fancy, but it's simple, easy and compliments my features.
 

cuzza

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Depends on how it's styled. I had a fairly long style (3 inches long at parts), but it was styled and only needed cutting once every coupla months. I've had it cut now, short, spiky... needs doing once every 3 weeks or a month.
 

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KillaCam,

what do you mean it compliments your features? and is there some sort of guide for getting the right type of cut for your headshape/facial features?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Diesel_Power

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BluEyes said:
KillaCam,

what do you mean it compliments your features? and is there some sort of guide for getting the right type of cut for your headshape/facial features?
Check this site out,

http://haircutsformen.org/buzz/pages/tipsgreatcuts.htm

Be sure to post of the forums with a pic of your face. The guy who runs the site replys to people who want to know what haircut best suits thier face. He's an experienced men's barber.
 

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I had a 5 year streak of getting it cut every Sunday. Rain, snow, sleet, or shine it didn't matter. Being fresh is good.

Now I get one every 3-4 weeks.
 

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i'm your opposite, I hate getting my hair cut and when I do I think it messes my hair up... I take care of it with products rather than hairdressers
 

Hockey Playa

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agreeed with Nexxus , the folliowing days after my haricut, i try to lay low, becuase i hate short hair, no products look good in it, and it really doesnt compliment my face. This question really depends on what kind of hairstyle you have...for me its 4-6 weeks,
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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md3sign

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3-4 weeks. it's always the same 1/4" buzz and it can actually get pretty long before it starts looking like a different do
 

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My hair takes a good 10-14 days to settle into a cut, so give it more than a month.
 
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