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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Haircuts, how often???

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I'm curious if it's wired for a guy to be going to his barber say like every 2 weeks? Or every other weekend? Right now I go once a month.

I like the way my hair looks after I've had it cut. Nice and fresh looking. But I hate it when after a week my hair starts to get longer and looks nothing like my hair did after my cut. My hair grows fast and I hate having long hair.

I also feel soo much better after i've had it cut. Like after a workout session. My confidence shoot up and I'm not afriad to talk to any girl. But if I don't like the way my hair is looking I don't feel as good and I start going AFC until I go to the barber again.

I don't care if you guys tell my im being obsessive. Atleast that way I know im overreacting and I can relax about it.

I guess guys who like to get really short haircuts know what im talking about.
 

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If it works for you, no need to worry about it. Although you might be racking up a fairly unhealthy barber bill over a period of time right?

I've got my own clipper set, and give it a buzz with a #4 every 1 1/2 - 2 weeks. It ain't fancy, but it's simple, easy and compliments my features.
 

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Depends on how it's styled. I had a fairly long style (3 inches long at parts), but it was styled and only needed cutting once every coupla months. I've had it cut now, short, spiky... needs doing once every 3 weeks or a month.
 

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KillaCam,

what do you mean it compliments your features? and is there some sort of guide for getting the right type of cut for your headshape/facial features?
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

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BluEyes said:
KillaCam,

what do you mean it compliments your features? and is there some sort of guide for getting the right type of cut for your headshape/facial features?
Check this site out,

http://haircutsformen.org/buzz/pages/tipsgreatcuts.htm

Be sure to post of the forums with a pic of your face. The guy who runs the site replys to people who want to know what haircut best suits thier face. He's an experienced men's barber.
 

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I had a 5 year streak of getting it cut every Sunday. Rain, snow, sleet, or shine it didn't matter. Being fresh is good.

Now I get one every 3-4 weeks.
 

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i'm your opposite, I hate getting my hair cut and when I do I think it messes my hair up... I take care of it with products rather than hairdressers
 

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agreeed with Nexxus , the folliowing days after my haricut, i try to lay low, becuase i hate short hair, no products look good in it, and it really doesnt compliment my face. This question really depends on what kind of hairstyle you have...for me its 4-6 weeks,
 

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3-4 weeks. it's always the same 1/4" buzz and it can actually get pretty long before it starts looking like a different do
 

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My hair takes a good 10-14 days to settle into a cut, so give it more than a month.
 
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