"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Haircuts, how often???

Diesel_Power

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I'm curious if it's wired for a guy to be going to his barber say like every 2 weeks? Or every other weekend? Right now I go once a month.

I like the way my hair looks after I've had it cut. Nice and fresh looking. But I hate it when after a week my hair starts to get longer and looks nothing like my hair did after my cut. My hair grows fast and I hate having long hair.

I also feel soo much better after i've had it cut. Like after a workout session. My confidence shoot up and I'm not afriad to talk to any girl. But if I don't like the way my hair is looking I don't feel as good and I start going AFC until I go to the barber again.

I don't care if you guys tell my im being obsessive. Atleast that way I know im overreacting and I can relax about it.

I guess guys who like to get really short haircuts know what im talking about.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KillaCam

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If it works for you, no need to worry about it. Although you might be racking up a fairly unhealthy barber bill over a period of time right?

I've got my own clipper set, and give it a buzz with a #4 every 1 1/2 - 2 weeks. It ain't fancy, but it's simple, easy and compliments my features.
 

cuzza

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Depends on how it's styled. I had a fairly long style (3 inches long at parts), but it was styled and only needed cutting once every coupla months. I've had it cut now, short, spiky... needs doing once every 3 weeks or a month.
 

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KillaCam,

what do you mean it compliments your features? and is there some sort of guide for getting the right type of cut for your headshape/facial features?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Diesel_Power

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BluEyes said:
KillaCam,

what do you mean it compliments your features? and is there some sort of guide for getting the right type of cut for your headshape/facial features?
Check this site out,

http://haircutsformen.org/buzz/pages/tipsgreatcuts.htm

Be sure to post of the forums with a pic of your face. The guy who runs the site replys to people who want to know what haircut best suits thier face. He's an experienced men's barber.
 

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I had a 5 year streak of getting it cut every Sunday. Rain, snow, sleet, or shine it didn't matter. Being fresh is good.

Now I get one every 3-4 weeks.
 

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i'm your opposite, I hate getting my hair cut and when I do I think it messes my hair up... I take care of it with products rather than hairdressers
 

Hockey Playa

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agreeed with Nexxus , the folliowing days after my haricut, i try to lay low, becuase i hate short hair, no products look good in it, and it really doesnt compliment my face. This question really depends on what kind of hairstyle you have...for me its 4-6 weeks,
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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md3sign

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3-4 weeks. it's always the same 1/4" buzz and it can actually get pretty long before it starts looking like a different do
 

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My hair takes a good 10-14 days to settle into a cut, so give it more than a month.
 
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