"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Haircuts, how often???

Diesel_Power

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I'm curious if it's wired for a guy to be going to his barber say like every 2 weeks? Or every other weekend? Right now I go once a month.

I like the way my hair looks after I've had it cut. Nice and fresh looking. But I hate it when after a week my hair starts to get longer and looks nothing like my hair did after my cut. My hair grows fast and I hate having long hair.

I also feel soo much better after i've had it cut. Like after a workout session. My confidence shoot up and I'm not afriad to talk to any girl. But if I don't like the way my hair is looking I don't feel as good and I start going AFC until I go to the barber again.

I don't care if you guys tell my im being obsessive. Atleast that way I know im overreacting and I can relax about it.

I guess guys who like to get really short haircuts know what im talking about.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KillaCam

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If it works for you, no need to worry about it. Although you might be racking up a fairly unhealthy barber bill over a period of time right?

I've got my own clipper set, and give it a buzz with a #4 every 1 1/2 - 2 weeks. It ain't fancy, but it's simple, easy and compliments my features.
 

cuzza

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Depends on how it's styled. I had a fairly long style (3 inches long at parts), but it was styled and only needed cutting once every coupla months. I've had it cut now, short, spiky... needs doing once every 3 weeks or a month.
 

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KillaCam,

what do you mean it compliments your features? and is there some sort of guide for getting the right type of cut for your headshape/facial features?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Diesel_Power

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BluEyes said:
KillaCam,

what do you mean it compliments your features? and is there some sort of guide for getting the right type of cut for your headshape/facial features?
Check this site out,

http://haircutsformen.org/buzz/pages/tipsgreatcuts.htm

Be sure to post of the forums with a pic of your face. The guy who runs the site replys to people who want to know what haircut best suits thier face. He's an experienced men's barber.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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I had a 5 year streak of getting it cut every Sunday. Rain, snow, sleet, or shine it didn't matter. Being fresh is good.

Now I get one every 3-4 weeks.
 

Nexxus

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i'm your opposite, I hate getting my hair cut and when I do I think it messes my hair up... I take care of it with products rather than hairdressers
 

Hockey Playa

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agreeed with Nexxus , the folliowing days after my haricut, i try to lay low, becuase i hate short hair, no products look good in it, and it really doesnt compliment my face. This question really depends on what kind of hairstyle you have...for me its 4-6 weeks,
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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md3sign

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3-4 weeks. it's always the same 1/4" buzz and it can actually get pretty long before it starts looking like a different do
 

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My hair takes a good 10-14 days to settle into a cut, so give it more than a month.
 
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