"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Haha, you guys are sooo right....

hhlowin

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Well ya, i was with my g/f for a little bit and i found out she wants to break up. Now before the relationship started i had her eating in the palm of my hand. She waited hand and foot for me to get on the internet and she had me on a high pedestal. Well then we started going out and i acted the way i 'thought' a b/f should. I kept up the teasing and stuff like that but i got sweet to her, and i actually called her and made an effort toward her. I decided to even give her some power. HAHA you guys were so right, you should never do the things i did. I slowly put her on the same level as me and that is where i made my mistake. I can walk away from this relationship very easily because i didnt get emotionally involved, but this is just an example of even if you have a g/f, you should never quit the game.
She said that I was a "really great guy, and really sweet and she still wants to be very good friends" and that was when i started cracking up. I had heard those familiar words before, but this time i knew what they really meant.
Just goes to show you im another example of rAFC. You should NEVER give up power, and NEVER EVER quit playing the game, i have learned a very valuable lesson.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AC/DC

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THE MAN SPEAKS THE TRUTH!

"Sometimes women get the notion that they's runnin the game"
- Playas Club (I forgot who made that song)
 

DemonXIII

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Peep

I feel ya man...
If u read my post u can probably relate to it
Just the same way i got a vibe from this...
Ima use ur error as advise for me...
KEEP PIMPIN'

late
 

AlexTheGreat

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Originally posted by AC/DC
THE MAN SPEAKS THE TRUTH!

"Sometimes women get the notion that they's runnin the game"
- Playas Club (I forgot who made that song)
Playaz Club by Rappin 4-Tay
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Smooth as Anything

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No... just bitter.

:) Grow up.
 
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