"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Haha, you guys are sooo right....

hhlowin

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Well ya, i was with my g/f for a little bit and i found out she wants to break up. Now before the relationship started i had her eating in the palm of my hand. She waited hand and foot for me to get on the internet and she had me on a high pedestal. Well then we started going out and i acted the way i 'thought' a b/f should. I kept up the teasing and stuff like that but i got sweet to her, and i actually called her and made an effort toward her. I decided to even give her some power. HAHA you guys were so right, you should never do the things i did. I slowly put her on the same level as me and that is where i made my mistake. I can walk away from this relationship very easily because i didnt get emotionally involved, but this is just an example of even if you have a g/f, you should never quit the game.
She said that I was a "really great guy, and really sweet and she still wants to be very good friends" and that was when i started cracking up. I had heard those familiar words before, but this time i knew what they really meant.
Just goes to show you im another example of rAFC. You should NEVER give up power, and NEVER EVER quit playing the game, i have learned a very valuable lesson.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AC/DC

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THE MAN SPEAKS THE TRUTH!

"Sometimes women get the notion that they's runnin the game"
- Playas Club (I forgot who made that song)
 

DemonXIII

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Peep

I feel ya man...
If u read my post u can probably relate to it
Just the same way i got a vibe from this...
Ima use ur error as advise for me...
KEEP PIMPIN'

late
 

AlexTheGreat

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Originally posted by AC/DC
THE MAN SPEAKS THE TRUTH!

"Sometimes women get the notion that they's runnin the game"
- Playas Club (I forgot who made that song)
Playaz Club by Rappin 4-Tay
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Smooth as Anything

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No... just bitter.

:) Grow up.
 
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