"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
had lunch wit this hb today
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hollowpoint
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First, you call your daddy and give this girl's number to him. Let him try her out first. If she passes pop's test, then you get yourself and all of your friends together and have a real big BBQ where you all give it to her if you know what I mean! Then when your done you get real drunk, then go to your computer, you change your password to the Don Juan Discussion Forum and when you wake up the next day you don't remember the password! What a wonderful world it would be if you just couldn't log on anymore! Peace out... make our dreams come true..
rgeere
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Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
diablo
Master Don Juan
"I made my g/f leave the house"
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=52479
"Sneaky Cheater"
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/sh...&threadid=47074
"Tired of Looking so Good"
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/sh...&threadid=52241
"Ex is Stalking me"
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/sh...&threadid=51940
"Trying to catch my g/f cheating"
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/sh...&threadid=47166
Obviously, there is absolutely no truth to any of his stories - in fact, half of the threads he created have been locked. This person is in no way benefitting the DJ community, nor is he intelligent enough to continue to be allowed to post on this forum. I vote "BAN!". Giovanni, crazykid... would one of you mind removing this headache from our board, permanently?
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