"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CostaDeSol

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Hey guys, I recently joined a big gym that has TONS of women. But i usually don't run in to them because I go there for just the free weights.

What have been your strategies to asking women out at the gym? Do you just walk up to them while they are working out at the work out machines? Do you go to the classes and meet them there, since there are a variety of classes like zumba/biking/etc?

I was hoping those who have successfully dated girls from their gym could give me feedback on this.

thanks in advance!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I agree with Espi, I train at home and at a Snap which is over the road, what I have found is that the attractive women who are really into their workouts seem to go to other gyms. The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
 

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I agree with Espi, I train at home and at a Snap which is over the road, what I have found is that the attractive women who are really into their workouts seem to go to other gyms. The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
 

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I agree with Espi, I train at home and at a Snap which is over the road, what I have found is that the attractive women who are really into their workouts seem to go to other gyms. The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
 

020204

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I agree with Espi, I train at home and at a Snap which is over the road, what I have found is that the attractive women who are really into their workouts seem to go to other gyms. The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CostaDeSol

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Espi said:
I have learned that it's best for me to keep a polite distance from women in gyms.
I see what you mean. at work I definitely keep it professional with female coworkers, but I wasn't hoping that strategy wouldn't apply to the gym. At the very least I wanted the gym to increase my social circle.
 

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020204 said:
The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
The gym i go to has a lot of classes that you can take, but I haven't looked in to them. I was thinking about checking them out specifically to see if they are a place to meet people.
 
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