"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CostaDeSol

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Hey guys, I recently joined a big gym that has TONS of women. But i usually don't run in to them because I go there for just the free weights.

What have been your strategies to asking women out at the gym? Do you just walk up to them while they are working out at the work out machines? Do you go to the classes and meet them there, since there are a variety of classes like zumba/biking/etc?

I was hoping those who have successfully dated girls from their gym could give me feedback on this.

thanks in advance!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I agree with Espi, I train at home and at a Snap which is over the road, what I have found is that the attractive women who are really into their workouts seem to go to other gyms. The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
 

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I agree with Espi, I train at home and at a Snap which is over the road, what I have found is that the attractive women who are really into their workouts seem to go to other gyms. The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
 

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I agree with Espi, I train at home and at a Snap which is over the road, what I have found is that the attractive women who are really into their workouts seem to go to other gyms. The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
 

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I agree with Espi, I train at home and at a Snap which is over the road, what I have found is that the attractive women who are really into their workouts seem to go to other gyms. The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Espi said:
I have learned that it's best for me to keep a polite distance from women in gyms.
I see what you mean. at work I definitely keep it professional with female coworkers, but I wasn't hoping that strategy wouldn't apply to the gym. At the very least I wanted the gym to increase my social circle.
 

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020204 said:
The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
The gym i go to has a lot of classes that you can take, but I haven't looked in to them. I was thinking about checking them out specifically to see if they are a place to meet people.
 
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