"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CostaDeSol

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Hey guys, I recently joined a big gym that has TONS of women. But i usually don't run in to them because I go there for just the free weights.

What have been your strategies to asking women out at the gym? Do you just walk up to them while they are working out at the work out machines? Do you go to the classes and meet them there, since there are a variety of classes like zumba/biking/etc?

I was hoping those who have successfully dated girls from their gym could give me feedback on this.

thanks in advance!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I agree with Espi, I train at home and at a Snap which is over the road, what I have found is that the attractive women who are really into their workouts seem to go to other gyms. The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
 

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I agree with Espi, I train at home and at a Snap which is over the road, what I have found is that the attractive women who are really into their workouts seem to go to other gyms. The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
 

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I agree with Espi, I train at home and at a Snap which is over the road, what I have found is that the attractive women who are really into their workouts seem to go to other gyms. The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
 

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I agree with Espi, I train at home and at a Snap which is over the road, what I have found is that the attractive women who are really into their workouts seem to go to other gyms. The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Espi said:
I have learned that it's best for me to keep a polite distance from women in gyms.
I see what you mean. at work I definitely keep it professional with female coworkers, but I wasn't hoping that strategy wouldn't apply to the gym. At the very least I wanted the gym to increase my social circle.
 

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020204 said:
The whole gym scene seems to be getting more and more anti socialable with the advent of ipods. The bigger gyms which have a lot of social activities outside the gym are probably the way to go.
The gym i go to has a lot of classes that you can take, but I haven't looked in to them. I was thinking about checking them out specifically to see if they are a place to meet people.
 
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