lizardking82
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Do you think guys who do tattoos or body art in general are just desperate for attention? Or are those all bitter words?
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I try not to hate on people, but I can't help judging people by their appearance (it's evolution!). If you have a neck tatoo, I'm pretty sure you're a piece of sh1t that doesn't have a care in the world, so I should probably keep an eye on you. That's the way it is.This is what happens when people speak without any sort of knowledge. They talk complete nonsense.
I have a tattoo from an anime on my forearm. I also have a heartagram on the other. I have some on my back, and other places.
Women are fascinated by it.
This comes from guys that have no idea about getting laid, and think they need to fit a certain mold. Instead of just being comfortable in their own skin.
And yes, I've posted pictures of my tatts. I've also posted pictures of different plates. None of them are ever below a HB6.
I never did this for women, but women definately like it. So much so that I approach with them showing (I have hidden them in workplaces - for example).
I see no point in hating on women for what they like, or hating on men for what they like. It really is so fvcking gay and stupid.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Neck tatoos are certainly low-class, that's why I said I'd keep an eye on 'em.Well, I don't have a neck tattoo. Because I think they are low-class, and look sh*tty.
But, if I wanted one, I'd get one regardless of what you think.
And it's that attitude that attracts the skirt. Know what I mean?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You sound lame!Gay as in lame. A way for weak-minded people to set themselves apart from the crowd.
But if it makes you feel unique, and helps you to get laid, then more power to you.
Guilty! I had a bad feeling about my post but posted it anyway. I admit it, I don't really know what the hell I am doing or saying most of the time. However I do think really hard (the 10 post limit stops me from freely posting constantly)This is what happens when people speak without any sort of knowledge. They talk complete nonsense.
I have a tattoo from an anime on my forearm. I also have a heartagram on the other. I have some on my back, and other places.
Women are fascinated by it.
This comes from guys that have no idea about getting laid, and think they need to fit a certain mold. Instead of just being comfortable in their own skin.
And yes, I've posted pictures of my tatts. I've also posted pictures of different plates. None of them are ever below a HB6.
I never did this for women, but women definately like it. So much so that I approach with them showing (I have hidden them in workplaces - for example).
I see no point in hating on women for what they like, or hating on men for what they like. It really is so fvcking gay and stupid.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nope, I am not aware of the thread you are talking about, really. I just thought it would be an interesting discussion to be had, that's allThis is white-knight BS. Same as the original post.
Op read a post about how a guy with tatts was fvcking a married woman. There was a cuckold thread where betas were crooning their sympathy. And talking about 90% quality, and all the other stupid sh*t that they do.
So, let's call out the sh*t for what it is. This is gaylord nonsense based on fear that these guys are going to take your woman.
And, I will. So keep crying.
So I should be scared of guys with tatoos?This is white-knight BS. Same as the original post.
Op read a post about how a guy with tatts was fvcking a married woman. There was a cuckold thread where betas were crooning their sympathy. And talking about 90% quality, and all the other stupid sh*t that they do.
So, let's call out the sh*t for what it is. This is gaylord nonsense based on fear that these guys are going to take your woman.
And, I will. So keep crying.
No. I was the first to comment on that thread after the OP and then 2-3 other comments were made, I got notifications about them and thus my last comment. Really, it has nothing to do with that thread. Sometimes, I get an idea into my head, I think it fits the DJ forum for different reasons and that's why I post the thread. Nothing more to itDon't start playing silly games. I'll put up the thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/youtuber-macs-on-youtubers-wife.240006/#post-2420163
Can we have a legit discussion, please? I want rawness and honesty. You literally put this thread up minutes after seeing this.
None of this sh*t matters in the end, does it? It's all just projection.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.