lizardking82
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Do you think guys who do tattoos or body art in general are just desperate for attention? Or are those all bitter words?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I try not to hate on people, but I can't help judging people by their appearance (it's evolution!). If you have a neck tatoo, I'm pretty sure you're a piece of sh1t that doesn't have a care in the world, so I should probably keep an eye on you. That's the way it is.This is what happens when people speak without any sort of knowledge. They talk complete nonsense.
I have a tattoo from an anime on my forearm. I also have a heartagram on the other. I have some on my back, and other places.
Women are fascinated by it.
This comes from guys that have no idea about getting laid, and think they need to fit a certain mold. Instead of just being comfortable in their own skin.
And yes, I've posted pictures of my tatts. I've also posted pictures of different plates. None of them are ever below a HB6.
I never did this for women, but women definately like it. So much so that I approach with them showing (I have hidden them in workplaces - for example).
I see no point in hating on women for what they like, or hating on men for what they like. It really is so fvcking gay and stupid.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Neck tatoos are certainly low-class, that's why I said I'd keep an eye on 'em.Well, I don't have a neck tattoo. Because I think they are low-class, and look sh*tty.
But, if I wanted one, I'd get one regardless of what you think.
And it's that attitude that attracts the skirt. Know what I mean?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You sound lame!Gay as in lame. A way for weak-minded people to set themselves apart from the crowd.
But if it makes you feel unique, and helps you to get laid, then more power to you.
Guilty! I had a bad feeling about my post but posted it anyway. I admit it, I don't really know what the hell I am doing or saying most of the time. However I do think really hard (the 10 post limit stops me from freely posting constantly)This is what happens when people speak without any sort of knowledge. They talk complete nonsense.
I have a tattoo from an anime on my forearm. I also have a heartagram on the other. I have some on my back, and other places.
Women are fascinated by it.
This comes from guys that have no idea about getting laid, and think they need to fit a certain mold. Instead of just being comfortable in their own skin.
And yes, I've posted pictures of my tatts. I've also posted pictures of different plates. None of them are ever below a HB6.
I never did this for women, but women definately like it. So much so that I approach with them showing (I have hidden them in workplaces - for example).
I see no point in hating on women for what they like, or hating on men for what they like. It really is so fvcking gay and stupid.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Nope, I am not aware of the thread you are talking about, really. I just thought it would be an interesting discussion to be had, that's allThis is white-knight BS. Same as the original post.
Op read a post about how a guy with tatts was fvcking a married woman. There was a cuckold thread where betas were crooning their sympathy. And talking about 90% quality, and all the other stupid sh*t that they do.
So, let's call out the sh*t for what it is. This is gaylord nonsense based on fear that these guys are going to take your woman.
And, I will. So keep crying.
So I should be scared of guys with tatoos?This is white-knight BS. Same as the original post.
Op read a post about how a guy with tatts was fvcking a married woman. There was a cuckold thread where betas were crooning their sympathy. And talking about 90% quality, and all the other stupid sh*t that they do.
So, let's call out the sh*t for what it is. This is gaylord nonsense based on fear that these guys are going to take your woman.
And, I will. So keep crying.
No. I was the first to comment on that thread after the OP and then 2-3 other comments were made, I got notifications about them and thus my last comment. Really, it has nothing to do with that thread. Sometimes, I get an idea into my head, I think it fits the DJ forum for different reasons and that's why I post the thread. Nothing more to itDon't start playing silly games. I'll put up the thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/youtuber-macs-on-youtubers-wife.240006/#post-2420163
Can we have a legit discussion, please? I want rawness and honesty. You literally put this thread up minutes after seeing this.
None of this sh*t matters in the end, does it? It's all just projection.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.