"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Guys with tattoos

lizardking82

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Do you think guys who do tattoos or body art in general are just desperate for attention? Or are those all bitter words?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Depends on the tattoo.

If they have Sailor Moon, a Triforce, Harry Potter sigils or Assassin Creed symbols, probably not. Same goes for other pop culture tattoos. Fandom stuff. Probably means the OPPOSITE of desperate, since their minds are devoted to something else at the moment.

If they have gang decals or an edgy street tattoo, yeah. If the tattoos have naked girls, very yeah. They might nut to their tats when nobody's around. Most guys I know never got their gang tattoos because of loyalty or representing their street. They wear it so they impress easy girls who want to get with the "bad boys". So yeah, want some advice? Get a street tattoo. Dumb hoes love dat shet.

If they have tribal, they were just broke but still wanted something. Girls may say they think tribal is trash but they're secretly lying, because those tattoos still bait them in. "If the ink is there, they don't care."

If its of a person, its probably somebody who meant something to them, and a good way to garner 4 points of Interest of women. "Who was that tattoo for?"
 
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I think men and women with tatoos are attention wh0res.

Look at me, look at me. See how different I am?!
 

lizardking82

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I am in a dilemma because I wanna have some tattoos done myself and that is why I was curious about how you guys see it. Nothing personal with either side of the conversation
 
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This is what happens when people speak without any sort of knowledge. They talk complete nonsense.

I have a tattoo from an anime on my forearm. I also have a heartagram on the other. I have some on my back, and other places.

Women are fascinated by it.

This comes from guys that have no idea about getting laid, and think they need to fit a certain mold. Instead of just being comfortable in their own skin.

And yes, I've posted pictures of my tatts. I've also posted pictures of different plates. None of them are ever below a HB6.

I never did this for women, but women definately like it. So much so that I approach with them showing (I have hidden them in workplaces - for example).

I see no point in hating on women for what they like, or hating on men for what they like. It really is so fvcking gay and stupid.
I try not to hate on people, but I can't help judging people by their appearance (it's evolution!). If you have a neck tatoo, I'm pretty sure you're a piece of sh1t that doesn't have a care in the world, so I should probably keep an eye on you. That's the way it is.

Any other tatoo, imo, is just a less conspicuous way of begging for attention.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, I don't have a neck tattoo. Because I think they are low-class, and look sh*tty.

But, if I wanted one, I'd get one regardless of what you think.

And it's that attitude that attracts the skirt. Know what I mean?
Neck tatoos are certainly low-class, that's why I said I'd keep an eye on 'em.

But I think all tatoos are gay. No offense meant here. It's just my personality.
 
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And I don't care if you have a neck tatoo, bud - your posts are good. That's all that matters.
 
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Gay as in lame. A way for weak-minded people to set themselves apart from the crowd.

But if it makes you feel unique, and helps you to get laid, then more power to you.
 

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I was interested in getting some ink done at one point

I decided against it when I answered no when I asked myself the question, "Would I still get a tattoo if I was the last person on earth?"

To each their own.

I personally don't think it means all tattooed individuals are desperate for attention, although in some cases I'm sure it's true.

It's kind of a subjective answer about appearance where the question can be rephrased as "Why do you get a nice haircut?" Or "Why do you dress like that?"
 

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I got my ribs done - worst pain of my life lol

But if we're being honest with ourselves, if tattoos didn't in some way, at least in our own mind, increase our confidence/status/appearance then we wouldn't bother forking out the cash and going through the pain to get them done. Whatever I put on my body though will be well thought out and will have releveance and meaning to myself and my story.

A well done tattoo looks badass and there's nothing wrong with that. I think it only starts to get lame when people get tattoos to try and be someone that they're not to impress people that wouldn't even give them the time of day.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gay as in lame. A way for weak-minded people to set themselves apart from the crowd.

But if it makes you feel unique, and helps you to get laid, then more power to you.
You sound lame!
 

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The word "thuggish" comes to mind.
 

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This is what happens when people speak without any sort of knowledge. They talk complete nonsense.

I have a tattoo from an anime on my forearm. I also have a heartagram on the other. I have some on my back, and other places.

Women are fascinated by it.

This comes from guys that have no idea about getting laid, and think they need to fit a certain mold. Instead of just being comfortable in their own skin.

And yes, I've posted pictures of my tatts. I've also posted pictures of different plates. None of them are ever below a HB6.

I never did this for women, but women definately like it. So much so that I approach with them showing (I have hidden them in workplaces - for example).

I see no point in hating on women for what they like, or hating on men for what they like. It really is so fvcking gay and stupid.
Guilty! I had a bad feeling about my post but posted it anyway. I admit it, I don't really know what the hell I am doing or saying most of the time. However I do think really hard (the 10 post limit stops me from freely posting constantly)

What anime? I wanna gamble and bet on TTGL, DBZ or another Shounen/Seinen, but if you're rocking something weird like Lucky Star and still pulling girls I'd high five you IRL.
 
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I have a lot of close friends with full sleeve tats. I'm sure it helps them get laid sometimes. Good for them.

Like I said, just not my personality.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is white-knight BS. Same as the original post.

Op read a post about how a guy with tatts was fvcking a married woman. There was a cuckold thread where betas were crooning their sympathy. And talking about 90% quality, and all the other stupid sh*t that they do.

So, let's call out the sh*t for what it is. This is gaylord nonsense based on fear that these guys are going to take your woman.

And, I will. So keep crying.
Nope, I am not aware of the thread you are talking about, really. I just thought it would be an interesting discussion to be had, that's all
 
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This is white-knight BS. Same as the original post.

Op read a post about how a guy with tatts was fvcking a married woman. There was a cuckold thread where betas were crooning their sympathy. And talking about 90% quality, and all the other stupid sh*t that they do.

So, let's call out the sh*t for what it is. This is gaylord nonsense based on fear that these guys are going to take your woman.

And, I will. So keep crying.
So I should be scared of guys with tatoos?

I get it. That's why you got them in the first place, huh? To show how bad you are.

Go somewhere else with that nonsense.
 

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Don't start playing silly games. I'll put up the thread:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/youtuber-macs-on-youtubers-wife.240006/#post-2420163

Can we have a legit discussion, please? I want rawness and honesty. You literally put this thread up minutes after seeing this.

None of this sh*t matters in the end, does it? It's all just projection.
No. I was the first to comment on that thread after the OP and then 2-3 other comments were made, I got notifications about them and thus my last comment. Really, it has nothing to do with that thread. Sometimes, I get an idea into my head, I think it fits the DJ forum for different reasons and that's why I post the thread. Nothing more to it
 

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I have my left upper arm done,almost half sleeve and need to get more work done on it,I got
It because it symbolizes something important for me. I could give a **** less what anyone thinks about me having it and it's never hindered progress with a woman, if anything they always wanna see it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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