"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Guys...make sure not to overdo it with the cologne

wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by bullmoose
I wear Vera Wang For Men. Girls ask me about it all the time. Then they're impressed as $#!+ that I know who Vera Wang is (woman's clothing designer known for hella-expensive wedding dresses.) The scent is mild vanilla, with tobacco and cedar undertones. And best of all, nobody else I know seems to wear it. It's not too expensive; a gift box is about $100 and should get you through the year.
That sounds good, women love vanilla.

I use the new Boss one called Energize. I went with the girlfriend to buy it(which is very key) she picked it out of about 10 others.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Soprano

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I usually just wear Black by Kenneth Cole if im goin somewhere nice at night....

anything else I put on a lil Versace Blue Jeans n im gone....


I should prlly check out some new cologne though and expand my arsenal
 

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Don't wear colognes that everyone else does. I don't care if you smell good, because they'll notice that a lot of others smell the same. You need to have YOUR OWN unique good smell. I can't stress it enough.
 

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Put a pine-tree car freshner around your neck, under your shirt. MONEY, you smell like a lumberjack and chicks think its hawt.
 

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It's a good idea not to soak in colonge...just one squirt is needed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vera Wang is very good--Also...

Obsession, Armani Black Code, Dolce and Gabbana, Boss Soul (new and good)--Some of the best.

Try Stetson Black--Very CHEAP + smells good...Can be purchased at Sav-on and Target.

Side Note: dont be a cologne junkie. Find a couple good ones, but dont overdo it and buy too many.

Ebay is great--dont buy in a mall. Just make sure the feedback is good.
 

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Originally posted by locarius
Please let Aqua di Gio die.

Also, Wyldfire, did you say anything to the guy? Maybe no one has ever told him.
Why don't you like aqua di gio?

Girls always say that I smell soo nice when I have it on. hmm or maybe your nose is to close to your ass which is why everything smells like **** to u. pls enlighten me?
 
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wow i've never seen so many people freak out about cologne

dont use too much

dont use what everyone else uses

wear deodorant

It's pretty simple. Your 150 dollar cologne isn't going to turn you into the worlds most laid man.
 
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