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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Guys...make sure not to overdo it with the cologne

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Originally posted by bullmoose
I wear Vera Wang For Men. Girls ask me about it all the time. Then they're impressed as $#!+ that I know who Vera Wang is (woman's clothing designer known for hella-expensive wedding dresses.) The scent is mild vanilla, with tobacco and cedar undertones. And best of all, nobody else I know seems to wear it. It's not too expensive; a gift box is about $100 and should get you through the year.
That sounds good, women love vanilla.

I use the new Boss one called Energize. I went with the girlfriend to buy it(which is very key) she picked it out of about 10 others.
 

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I usually just wear Black by Kenneth Cole if im goin somewhere nice at night....

anything else I put on a lil Versace Blue Jeans n im gone....


I should prlly check out some new cologne though and expand my arsenal
 

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Don't wear colognes that everyone else does. I don't care if you smell good, because they'll notice that a lot of others smell the same. You need to have YOUR OWN unique good smell. I can't stress it enough.
 

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Put a pine-tree car freshner around your neck, under your shirt. MONEY, you smell like a lumberjack and chicks think its hawt.
 

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It's a good idea not to soak in colonge...just one squirt is needed.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Vera Wang is very good--Also...

Obsession, Armani Black Code, Dolce and Gabbana, Boss Soul (new and good)--Some of the best.

Try Stetson Black--Very CHEAP + smells good...Can be purchased at Sav-on and Target.

Side Note: dont be a cologne junkie. Find a couple good ones, but dont overdo it and buy too many.

Ebay is great--dont buy in a mall. Just make sure the feedback is good.
 

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Originally posted by locarius
Please let Aqua di Gio die.

Also, Wyldfire, did you say anything to the guy? Maybe no one has ever told him.
Why don't you like aqua di gio?

Girls always say that I smell soo nice when I have it on. hmm or maybe your nose is to close to your ass which is why everything smells like **** to u. pls enlighten me?
 
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wow i've never seen so many people freak out about cologne

dont use too much

dont use what everyone else uses

wear deodorant

It's pretty simple. Your 150 dollar cologne isn't going to turn you into the worlds most laid man.
 
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