"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Guys...make sure not to overdo it with the cologne

wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by bullmoose
I wear Vera Wang For Men. Girls ask me about it all the time. Then they're impressed as $#!+ that I know who Vera Wang is (woman's clothing designer known for hella-expensive wedding dresses.) The scent is mild vanilla, with tobacco and cedar undertones. And best of all, nobody else I know seems to wear it. It's not too expensive; a gift box is about $100 and should get you through the year.
That sounds good, women love vanilla.

I use the new Boss one called Energize. I went with the girlfriend to buy it(which is very key) she picked it out of about 10 others.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I usually just wear Black by Kenneth Cole if im goin somewhere nice at night....

anything else I put on a lil Versace Blue Jeans n im gone....


I should prlly check out some new cologne though and expand my arsenal
 

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Don't wear colognes that everyone else does. I don't care if you smell good, because they'll notice that a lot of others smell the same. You need to have YOUR OWN unique good smell. I can't stress it enough.
 

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Put a pine-tree car freshner around your neck, under your shirt. MONEY, you smell like a lumberjack and chicks think its hawt.
 

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It's a good idea not to soak in colonge...just one squirt is needed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Vera Wang is very good--Also...

Obsession, Armani Black Code, Dolce and Gabbana, Boss Soul (new and good)--Some of the best.

Try Stetson Black--Very CHEAP + smells good...Can be purchased at Sav-on and Target.

Side Note: dont be a cologne junkie. Find a couple good ones, but dont overdo it and buy too many.

Ebay is great--dont buy in a mall. Just make sure the feedback is good.
 

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Originally posted by locarius
Please let Aqua di Gio die.

Also, Wyldfire, did you say anything to the guy? Maybe no one has ever told him.
Why don't you like aqua di gio?

Girls always say that I smell soo nice when I have it on. hmm or maybe your nose is to close to your ass which is why everything smells like **** to u. pls enlighten me?
 
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wow i've never seen so many people freak out about cologne

dont use too much

dont use what everyone else uses

wear deodorant

It's pretty simple. Your 150 dollar cologne isn't going to turn you into the worlds most laid man.
 
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