"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Guys...make sure not to overdo it with the cologne

wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by bullmoose
I wear Vera Wang For Men. Girls ask me about it all the time. Then they're impressed as $#!+ that I know who Vera Wang is (woman's clothing designer known for hella-expensive wedding dresses.) The scent is mild vanilla, with tobacco and cedar undertones. And best of all, nobody else I know seems to wear it. It's not too expensive; a gift box is about $100 and should get you through the year.
That sounds good, women love vanilla.

I use the new Boss one called Energize. I went with the girlfriend to buy it(which is very key) she picked it out of about 10 others.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I usually just wear Black by Kenneth Cole if im goin somewhere nice at night....

anything else I put on a lil Versace Blue Jeans n im gone....


I should prlly check out some new cologne though and expand my arsenal
 

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Don't wear colognes that everyone else does. I don't care if you smell good, because they'll notice that a lot of others smell the same. You need to have YOUR OWN unique good smell. I can't stress it enough.
 

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Put a pine-tree car freshner around your neck, under your shirt. MONEY, you smell like a lumberjack and chicks think its hawt.
 

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It's a good idea not to soak in colonge...just one squirt is needed.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Vera Wang is very good--Also...

Obsession, Armani Black Code, Dolce and Gabbana, Boss Soul (new and good)--Some of the best.

Try Stetson Black--Very CHEAP + smells good...Can be purchased at Sav-on and Target.

Side Note: dont be a cologne junkie. Find a couple good ones, but dont overdo it and buy too many.

Ebay is great--dont buy in a mall. Just make sure the feedback is good.
 

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Originally posted by locarius
Please let Aqua di Gio die.

Also, Wyldfire, did you say anything to the guy? Maybe no one has ever told him.
Why don't you like aqua di gio?

Girls always say that I smell soo nice when I have it on. hmm or maybe your nose is to close to your ass which is why everything smells like **** to u. pls enlighten me?
 
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wow i've never seen so many people freak out about cologne

dont use too much

dont use what everyone else uses

wear deodorant

It's pretty simple. Your 150 dollar cologne isn't going to turn you into the worlds most laid man.
 
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